Sue Patton Thoele Quotes

#1. You know the trouble with real life? There's no danger music.

Jim Carrey

#2. We all need to feel understood and connected to ourselves and to others.

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#3. Sometimes the waters of our spirits are churned and murky, and it is difficult to tap the reservoirs of our innate wisdom and knowledge. But the waters will settle as we do. Quietly and gently encourage yourself to go inside. Clarity will come.

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#4. When we become response-able - that is, when we learn to choose our responses freely and consciously - we are free to build a life of continuing growth and increasing happiness.

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#5. Hiding our fears behind compulsive behavior of any kind severely limits our ability to be ourselves.

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#6. Teasing is veiled hostility and is almost never funny, unless the teasee has openly agreed to relate that way.

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#7. Anger, if not allowed to fester and grow out of proportion, is healthy, like a smoke alarm that if heeded can prevent all sorts of damage.

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#8. If you're about to become a stepmother or are currently filling that role, you are gambling that the love you've found and the strength and wisdom that you've acquired will see you through.

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#9. Pausing gives us the opportunity to arrive at an internal place from which we can choose wisely what needs to be done or said, and then do so gently.

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#10. An angry frontal attack puts even the most invulnerable person on the defensive.

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#11. When people think of someone being prolific, it's like, 'He's got a vault with 5,000 songs in it,' or something, but I just kind of pick them out of the air when they float by.

Mac DeMarco

#12. Sometimes it's not the light in a person you fall in love with, but the dark. Sometimes it's not the optimist you need, but another pessimist to walk beside you and know, absolutely know, that the sound in the dark is a monster, and it really is as bad as you think.

Laurell K. Hamilton

#13. Worry is a habit that shatters our peace of mind and needlessly drains our energy, a form of mental masturbation without any benefits.

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#14. All my parents' music came from greatest hits albums. It was like the thought of getting even one bum track was too much for them to handle.

Carol Rifka Brunt

#15. It's so important to break the pattern of looking outside ourselves for self-esteem.

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#16. By thinking of things you could understand them.

James Joyce

#17. Unresolved grief is created when we don't allow ourselves to work through feelings as they arise. If we deny having painful feelings or put them on a shelf, they don't simply evaporate. Rather, unresolved feelings gnaw at our energy, prey on our emotions, and generally debilitate us.

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#18. To most women, friendship is not a luxury; it is an essential part of their being.

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#19. Because we fear other people's reactions and don't know how to respond, we allow them to violate our limits and boundaries.

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#20. Lack of forgiveness gives others power over us. Withholding forgiveness simply allows another person to have control over our well-being.

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#21. One of the blessings human beings take for granted is the ability to remember pain without re-feeling it. The pain of the physical wounds is long gone ... and the other kind of hurt, the damage done to our spirits, has been healed. We are careful with those scarred places in each other.

Lisa Kleypas

#22. Often something more simple would be better. Sometimes I put things together - a shirt, a sweater, a jacket - and it's too complicated. I would have worn only a v-neck sweater, it would have been better. It's not the clothes but it's how you wear them sometimes.

Ines De La Fressange

#23. Pace yourself in your work and commitments. Nobody is indispensable. And when you get sick, honor your body by giving it the rest and medical attention that it's asking for.

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#24. Often illness is an expression of feelings repressed.

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#25. Let me take a moment to point out the glaringly obvious. Humans are idiots.

B. Justin Shier

#26. I love music that has good catchy choruses and fits into many different genres ... I like real artists, that write their own material and are great performers.

Perez Hilton

#27. Being aware of our feelings sounds easy, but it's not because many of us spend our entire lives pushing feelings aside as we try to please others.

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#28. Queenie: (trying to cheer him up) I'll come with you. We'll go somewhere - we'll go anywhere - see I ain't never gonna find anyone like -

Jacob: (bravely) There's loads like me.

Queenie: No... no...there's only one like you.

J.K. Rowling

#29. However, if criticism and humility aren't balanced with appreciation for things we do well and our willingness to learn, we can become critical, judgmental, and stress-filled.

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#30. Expecting people to read your mind hardly ever gets you what you desire.

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#31. The Soviet Union has indeed been our greatest menace, not so much because of what it has done, but because of the excuses it has provided us for our failures.

J. William Fulbright

#32. Placing our attention on providing consistent appreciation, approval, and applause to those we love not only focuses their energy on the good things about themselves but also teaches them to return the favor to us.

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#33. Computers have virtually replaced tape recorders.

Tony Visconti

#34. In Cyberspace, the First Amendment is a local ordinance.

John Perry Barlow

#35. We need to accept our anger, fear, or whatever undisclosed feelings we have, no matter how socially unacceptable they seem.

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#36. You are a special and unique person, who has never lived before and who will never live in the future

Sunday Adelaja

#37. Considering the fact that we're all laced with flaws, idiosyncrasies, and vulnerabilities, wouldn't it be wise and kind to adopt an attitude of gentleness in relating to each other?

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#38. After all, this was a Traditional Ceremony. If you took the view that you were not going to do things because they were apparently ridiculous, you might as well go home

Terry Pratchett