I Am Unlovable Quotes

#1. I am unlovable ... I have tried to involve myself in other people, in relationships, and even - in my sillier moments - in love. But it doesn't work. Something in me is broken or missing and sooner or later the other person catches me Acting or one of Those Nights comes along.

Jeff Lindsay

#2. I want to ask him if it's possible that a girl can be born unlovable, or does she just become that way?

Libba Bray

#3. Jealousy has always been my cross, the weakness and woundedness in me that has most often caused me to feel ugly and unlovable, like the Bad Seed.

Anne Lamott

#4. She was not sure if she would want him to have known; we do not always wish for those for whom we long to know that we long for them, especially if the longing is impossible, or inappropriate ... to be loved by the unlovable was not something that most people could cope with.

Alexander McCall Smith

#5. I certainly want people to like my writing, but I know that if I write with the intention of trying to please people, the writing will not be good because it will not be authentic. So, ironically, I have to be willing to write something strange or unlovable in order to write anything truly good.

Amity Gaige

#6. You have no chose but to assume it's your fault, that you're unlovable. And the feeling wraps around you until it becomes a prison, and you find yourself barricading that doors against anyone who wants to come in.

Lisa Kleypas

#7. Sexiness is a state of mind - a comfortable state of being. It's about loving yourself in your most unlovable moments.

Halle Berry

#8. Saigon was loved precisely because it was so unlovable - its squalor, its biblical, Job-like misfortune, its imminent, hoevering doom.

Tatjana Soli

#9. The inability to love and accept yourself and your humanity is at the heart of many illnesses. To be loved and accepted, you must start by loving yourself. If you have traits that you consider unlovable, you must love them anyway ... it's a paradox.

Christiane Northrup

#10. You also need love. Your characters need to love something, otherwise they will be unlovable.

James Franco

#11. If there's a message, it's that the unlovable and unattractive parts of ourselves should be embraced. The only real currency between people is what happens when they're not cool. And I hope people feel OK about not being cool.

Helen Hunt

#12. Someone once told me that everyone deserved to be loved.
Even the unlovable?
Maybe especially them.

Glenn Beck

#13. You are capable of loving the unlovable.
The grace of God gives you the power to love.
It also takes conscious effort and decision to choice to love.

Lailah Gifty Akita

#14. I think part of her feared that if Mother could leave her that way, she must be unlovable. And of course, she wasn't.

Polly Horvath

#15. Unchecked expressions of anger often lead to our making negative statements that communicate to our children that we think they are unlovable.

Nancy Samalin

#16. The only thing worse than an unlovable woman was an unlovable woman who whined about not being loved.

Courtney Milan

#17. Today I will tell myself that I'm lovable. Just because some people haven't been able to love me in ways that worked doesn't mean that I'm unlovable. I've had lessons to learn, and some of them have hurt deeply, but I can still love, and I still am loved.

Melody Beattie

#18. World & people only seem unlovable due to toxins & lies they've been fed. Release distortions of mind. Return all to innocence & freedom

Jay Woodman

#19. It was a pity that with his great qualities, his unselfishness and honor, his intelligence and sensibility, he should be so unlovable.

W. Somerset Maugham

#20. Love means to love that which is unlovable; or it is no virtue at all.

G.K. Chesterton

#21. She possesses what someone once described to me as all the unlovable virtues.

Isaac Asimov

#22. Anyone can love a rose, but it takes a lot to love a leaf.

Tom Flynn

#23. It is not the most lovable individuals who stand more in need of love, but the most unlovable

Ashley Montagu

#24. I know I seem unlovable and impossible at times, but if you'll take the time to understand what my needs are, I'll do the same for you. Then we can have a relationship filled with passion, excitement, and sexual fulfillment. - Light Her Fire

Ellen Kriedman

#25. God does not love us because we are lovable, have a pleasing personality or a good sense of humor, or at rare times show exceptional kindness. In spite of who we are and what we have done, God wants to pour out His love on us, for the unlovable are also precious unto Him.

David B. Haight

#26. Just because someone isn't willing or able to love us, it doesn't mean that we are unlovable.

Brene Brown

#27. I was unlovable in his eyes and so therefore I was unlovable in my own eyes.

J.R. Rain

#28. Anyone who has ever been an ugly adolescent - and we are legion - knows that the feeling of being unlovely and unlovable never goes away; it is always there, lurking just beneath the surface.

Ruth Reichl

#29. What is it about me that makes me so fuckin' unlovable to someone like Georgie Price? I'm strong. I'm tall. I can change a flat. I can hold my breath for at least two minutes solid. I've got a big dick. What more do girls want? Manly tears? I mean, damn. Throw a brother a bone already.

Jessica Clare

#30. If I were to search for the central core of difficulty in people as I have come to know them, it is that in the great majority of cases they despise themselves, regarding themselves as worthless and unlovable.

Carl Rogers

#31. If love means anything at all it means extending your hand to the unlovable.

Quentin Crisp

#32. The Word says God don't give us credit for lovin the folks we want to love anyway. No, He gives us credit for loving the unlovable. The perfect love of God don't come with no conditions ...

Ron Hall

#33. Your friend is convinced she is unlovable, unreachable. Depression can do that to a person. She thinks no one can understand her. She ignores all evidence to the contrary, and it has led her to make some very tragic decisions.

Sarah Fine

#34. I can say this: don't give up. Not on love but, more important still, not on you. Never let yourself believe that you are unlovable or flawed in any way. You deserve to be loved. You deserve kind words and an unwavering eye.

Menna Van Praag