Top 100 Help Others Help Yourself Quotes
#1. The best way to bury your pain is to help others, and to lose yourself in that.
Daoud Hari
#2. Help others while respecting the Sacred Law of Free Will. By recognizing and honoring God in others, you recognize and honor God within yourself.
Human Angels
#4. If possible, try to talk good about others, always. By telling good about another person, you will help yourself and another person.
Nirmala Srivastava
#5. Ask yourself before making a decision; will this decision harm or help myself or others involved in the decision
Kloby
#6. It's great if you can help others, but seriously ... don't lose YOURSELF in the process!
Karen Gibbs
#7. Opportunity to help others is the opportunity to help yourself in disguise.
Mayur Ramgir
#8. The golden opportunity you are seeking is in yourself. It is not in your environment, it is not in luck or chance, or the help of others; it is in yourself alone.
Orison Swett Marden
#9. If you want a strong future: You need to get past the stories that you have told yourself and others. You need to hear the heartbeat
that's the real you.
Bill Jensen
#10. Get off your bottom and be the stand, and do the work you can to pursue the American Dream for yourself, and help others to do the same.
David Pratt
#11. Stop comparing yourself with others. If they are good at something, you too are good at something else. Self-confidence is not measured by your own capabilities versus that of others, but by your own needs.
Stephen Richards
#12. Grace is that ability; to face adversity and be at ease, to enter into the suffering world and help others without losing yourself in the process. It is to be true to your most essential nature, and produce something good from that. To have grace is as close as we may come to perfection.
Christopher Daniel Mechling
#14. The mind will enchain yourself, others or both. Your heart will set you / them free
Rasheed Ogunlaru
#15. You must ingratiate yourself with those who can help you. Flatter them to their faces. Praise them to others who will carry your words back to them.
Chin-Ning Chu
#16. Don't forget to pause and nourish yourself a bit along the way. When you're born to help others sometimes you forget to help yourself.
Paula Heller Garland
#17. You are not, though, forgiving so as to let others off with things. You are forgiving so that you can empower yourself to get over it and become strong.
Stephen Richards
#18. It's the song in your heart that wants you to help make yourself a better person, and to help other people do the same. Everybody has one.
Mattie Stepanek
#19. Maybe, if you can't get someone out of your head they were never meant to leave. Perhaps, they were meant to help change you into the person you have been waiting to become.
Shannon L. Alder
#20. Rather than diluting the positive feelings by telling others about your own kindness, by keeping it to yourself you get to retain all the positive feelings.
Richard Carlson
#21. You have two hands, One to help yourself and the second to help others.
Unknown
#22. To help create positive change in others, you must first find the catalyst for positive change in yourself," Mary Miller, Changing Direction: Ten Choices That Impact Your Dreams (Chapter 1).
Mary Miller
#24. You will find that the mere resolve not to be useless, and the honest desire to help other people, will, in the quickest and delicatest ways, improve yourself.
John Ruskin
#25. Don't entrust your future on others' hands. Rather make decisions by yourself with the help of God's guidance. Hold your beliefs so tight and never let go of them!
Hark Herald Sarmiento
#26. Never forget that we are more than the genetic code. We can be more than labels applied to us. We can be more than what others whisper behind our backs. Free will exists. We need to choose to be the best we can be and we need to help others do the same. Believe in yourself.
Sophie Jordan
#27. If you ever need a helping hand, it is at the end of your arm. As you get older you must remember you have a second hand. The first one is to help yourself. The second hand is to help others.
Audrey Hepburn
#28. Lift up your two hands; remember one is for helping others while the other is for helping you. Give a helping hand to whoever needs help. I believe you need help too; give help to yourself!
Israelmore Ayivor
#29. It's sometimes easier to help others rather than helping yourself. The trick is to listen to your "self" as a friend. This may be the simplest change you ever make in life, with the biggest impact.
Lorii Myers
#30. Greatness is never achieved by trying to imitate the greatness of another. Greatness is chipping away at all that does not belong to you and then expressing yourself so truly that others can't help but recognize it.
Jewel
#31. Helping others without any expectation and without gain is just as much a gift to yourself as it is to the person you give to.
Kat Von D.
#32. Be true to yourself, help others, make each day your masterpiece, make friendship a fine art, drink deeply from good books - especially the Bible, build a shelter against a rainy day, give thanks for your blessings and pray for guidance every day.
John Wooden
#34. Believe that you're as bright as the stars, Always help others in need, Be super, Be great, Be amazing ...
Be yourself!
Bullying Ben
Timothy Pina
#35. How can thinking about the misery of others help if you're miserable yourself
Anne Frank
#36. You truly help others working on yourself. Remember that the only power you have is over your own choices. You simply have no power to choose for others unless they allow you to.
Raphael Zernoff
#37. You don't have to rush out to become the mayor of your city or the president of the United States in order to help others, but you can begin with your relatives and friends and the people around you. In fact, you can start with yourself. The important point is to realize that you are never off duty.
Chogyam Trungpa
#38. You, being yourself, help others be themselves. Because you recognize your own uniqueness you will not need to dominate others, nor cringe before them.
Jane Roberts
#39. Comparing yourself to others does nothing for you. Society has conditioned us to value people who fit a secular mold of perfection.
Michele Woolley
#40. It's time to consider: What are the toughest choices you face as you lead yourself and others into the future?
Bill Jensen
#41. A broken friendship that is mended through forgiveness can be even stronger than it once was.
Stephen Richards
#42. In seeking to teach others,
you teach yourself.
In seeking to help others,
you help yourself.
In seeking to heal others,
you heal yourself.
In seeking to bless others,
you bless yourself.
Matshona Dhliwayo
#43. If I've never stepped outside the role that's been assigned to me since birth, I've never tested myself. I've been too afraid of others' opinions, I think. I've been a coward. If that woman needs me, why not help her - for her ... and for me?
Elizabeth Hoyt
#44. Holding onto anger is like carrying a bucket of poison. Every step you walk, it splashes onto yourself and others. When you finally reach the one who deserves it, you have poisoned yourself and many other innocent people.
Dean Henryson
#45. You never help anyone without helping yourself. You never pick up anyone without making yourself stronger.
Debasish Mridha
#46. Make a donation or a charity or volunteer your time this month to help others less fortunate than yourself.
Demi Lovato
#47. Knowing your true self will help you work more effectively to reach your goals. It will lead you down the road to success. It will bring you a calmness that will improve your attitude and your relationships with others.
Auliq Ice
#48. The way you eat defines how you look to yourself, but the way you speak defines how you look to others.
Ankit Goel
#50. When you change yourself, you inspire others, and this inspiration changes the world.
Stephen Richards
#51. Changing yourself is supposed to mean hope, at least according to the self-help books and magazine paradigms, but for me - and I suspect many others - it simply means finding new ways to feel inadequate.
Noelle Howey
#52. I was so hungry to learn. My mother drilled this into me. When you read,she said, you know--and you can help yourself and others.
Carole Boston Weatherford
#54. Sometimes love is letting others use you; Lending yourself to help them go further in their journey.
Bidemi Mark-Mordi
#55. I'm of the school of thought where, if you can't sort something out for yourself, no one can help you. Rehab is great for some people but not others.
Amy Winehouse
#56. When you help others feel important, you help yourself feel important too.
David J. Schwartz
#57. You can be yourself without pursuing yourself. Have you ever seen a dog chase his own tail? He just runs in circles.
Criss Jami
#58. Maturity is about Challenging yourself and Improving!
And then taking that experience to help others ...
Tsem Tulku Rinpoche
#59. There is an elegance to knowing who you are that will help you unfold a sweet tolerance for yourself. Knowing and liking yourself will then allow you to be kind and compassionate to others, deeply aware that they want the same things: love and contentment.
Margaux Bergen
#60. To help others develop, start with yourself! When the boss acts like a little god and tells everyone else they need to improve, that behavior can be copied at every level of management. Every level then points out how the level below it needs to change. The end result: No one gets much better.
Marshall Goldsmith
#61. SELF HELP
Use the same amount of energy required to pull others down, to uplift yourself instead
Kamil Ali
Kamil Ali
#62. You can't do it all yourself. Don't be afraid to rely on others to help you accomplish your goals.
Oprah Winfrey
#63. The world is a wonderful place. What goes around comes around. Please help others to the best of your ability. In the long run you may be helping yourself only.
Pravin Agarwal
#64. If you wish to please me, and to bring success and honour to yourself, do right and study, because others will help you if you help yourself.
Niccolo Machiavelli
#65. Devotion to self is necessary. First, place the mask on yourself and breathe deeply. Then help the others. If you don't save yourself, they will die.
Dan Groat
#66. The next time you want to withhold your help, or your love, or your support for another for whatever the reason, ask yourself a simple question: do the reasons you want to withhold it reflect more on them or on you? And which reasons do you want defining you forevermore?
Dan Pearce
#67. It's up to you to make the conscious choices that bring about a better future. Find new methods to deal with old routines. You have to take charge of your life, to be accountable to yourself and responsible toward others.
Lynn C. Tolson
#68. You can't be much good to others, if you're no good to yourself.
Carlos Wallace
#69. ... when writing, always hook the reader with your first sentence ... in love, never settle ... value yourself first and this will help you to value others ... life is short, so enjoy it to the fullest ... everyone in the world is different, and that's ok ...
Spider Robinson
#70. Each of us is accountable to God for our personal holiness. Humbling yourself by letting others into your life and allowing them to help you and hold you accountable will release the sanctifying, transforming grace of God in your life.
Nancy Leigh DeMoss
#71. There's always someone to help, there's always some way in which you can perfect yourself through service to others.
Frederick Lenz
#73. Be true to yourself.
Make each day your masterpiece.
Help others.
Drink deeply from good books.
Make friendship a fine art.
Build a shelter against a rainy day.
Pray for guidance and give thanks for your blessings every day.
John Wooden
#74. Try to help others. Consult their weaknesses, relieve their maladies; strive to raise them up, and by so doing you will most effectually raise yourself up also.
Joseph Barber Lightfoot
#76. Sometimes healing comes after helping someone that is going through the same trauma you went through. Help yourself by helping others.
Ace Antonio Hall
#77. Never talk about the faults of others, no matter how bad they may be. Nothing is ever gained by that. You never help one by talking about his fault; you do him an injury, and injure yourself as well.
Swami Vivekananda
#78. The way to thrive is to help others thrive; the way to flourish is to help others flourish; the way to fulfill yourself is to spend yourself.
Cornelius Plantinga
#79. You can only make choices for yourself. You can offer to help others find their way, but it is their decision if they will accept your help. You cannot force them to accept, even if you are in the right.
Brian L. Weiss
#80. We decided that humility was defined not by self-deprecating behavior or attitudes but by the esteem with which you regard others ... Generally, you can be humble only if you feel really good about yourself - and you want to help those around you feel really good about themselves, too.
Clayton Christensen
#81. For me, my core focus has always been to help others so what drives me to keep doing this is the fact that I can continue to learn to coach others such as yourself. You might not be a fitness trainer, or maybe you are, but you need to find that CORE reason that will keep you going forever.
Scott Herman
#82. You yourself desire rank and standing; then help others to get rank and standing. You want to turn your merits to account; then help others to turn theirs to account.
Confucius
#83. A true friend will never lead you to do something hurtful towards yourself or others but will help out with good things towards you
Timothy Pina
#84. Giving materialistically is the soft option, but when you give from what you do for others then your reward is immeasurable contentment.
Stephen Richards
#85. If only you could see the greatness in yourself, you wouldn't envy the greatness in others.
Suzy Kassem
#86. We can help others in the world more by making the most of yourself than in any other way.
Earl Nightingale
#87. When you affirm your own Tightness in the universe, then you co operate with others easily and automatically as part of your own nature. You, being yourself, help others be themselves.
Jane Roberts
#88. Cling, therefore, to Jesus in life and death; trust yourself to the glory of Him who alone can help you when all others fail.
Thomas A Kempis
#89. Just because you help others doesn't mean you never need help yourself. Doctors can catch colds. Lawyers can be sued. Police officers can call 911.
Sarah Jakes
#90. The best way is to understand yourself, and then you will understand everything.
So when you try hard to make your own way, you will help others, and you will be helped by others.
Before you make your own way you cannot help anyone, and no one can help you.
Shunryu Suzuki
#91. Humans are interdependent by choice. You have a burden of guilt, and it's brave of you to want to carry it yourself. But it's foolish not to let others help you. Give some of it away to your parents and your friends. And when they need your help, you'll be strong enough to support them, too.
Sarina Bowen
#92. You need an attitude of service. You're not just serving yourself. You help others to grow up and you grow with them.
David Green
#93. It doesn't matter what others think. This is about YOU. Create a life that you genuinely love with your whole heart & start with yourself.
Brittany Burgunder
#94. You have to be responsible for yourself, refer to yourself, develop yourself, help others, whatever it may be. So we shouldn't have an idea that the whole thing is to shatter ones ego.
Robert Thurman
#95. Before you can give anyone a hand up, first you must get yourself up there to do so ...
Stephen Richards
#96. Blame is such a self-defeating choice. It renders one helpless, putting any solution well out of reach, for we rarely can change others. Consider this, a solution well within your reach, someone you can surely change: Yourself.
Russell Kyle
#97. Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, it's at the end of your arm, as you get older, remember you have another hand: The first is to help yourself, the second is to help others.
Sam Levenson
#98. If you yourself desire establishment, then help others to get establishment; if you yourself want success, then help others to attain success.
Confucius
#99. Down in their hearts, wise men know this truth: the only way to help yourself is to help others.
Elbert Hubbard
#100. Through seeing the good in others, you also see the best within yourself.
Warren Cassell Jr.