Relationships 101 Quotes

#1. The best way to remain in your relationship is to keep other people out of your relationship.

Carlos Wallace

#2. Empowered Women 101: Happiness is something that you establish before a relationship. It is not the relationship that establishes it first.

Shannon L. Alder

#3. People meant to be together will always take detours through pain, misunderstanding and pride, but some how they always drift back to the one thing that makes them feel alive.

Shannon L. Alder

#4. When you love yourself you will never need closure from any man. That doesn't mean you didn't love him, it simply means you love yourself enough to realize God has a better plan for you that doesn't involve one more conversation that will remind you of that person's lack of respect for you.

Shannon L. Alder

#5. I waited for the seasons of love to pass from this cold winter to the summer heat I dreamed of.

Shannon L. Alder

#6. Timing is only lack of enough emotions.

Shannon L. Alder

#7. A relationship is so much easier when you make a conscious decision to accept that you only have each other. That said, problems with your mate should only be discussed within the confines of your union.

Carlos Wallace

#8. You will know it is love not when you think about them all the time or want to be with them, but when you worry about them and you want their approval and happiness.

Shannon L. Alder

#9. Some people need significance more than they need another person. Change will only happen in a relationship when you realize it is not the person, but the "emotion" you desire.

Shannon L. Alder

#10. Inside of you is your love, not beside you. She is just there to remind you of where you placed her heart.

Shannon L. Alder

#11. In a relationship, prudent application of the gray theory is a key ingredient in assuring years of happiness; "till death do us part". Balance is at the center of success, satisfaction and a lifetime of love.

Carlos Wallace

#12. For, what is the purpose of true love, other than to rescue another from one's self? Why is that not the first thing we look for?

Shannon L. Alder

#13. Good sex is about knowing each other's deepest and kinkiest desires.

Abhijit Naskar

#14. True love is 20 percent care and 80 percent understanding.

Abhijit Naskar

#15. Beauty is irrelevant to human life, especially in a relationship.

Abhijit Naskar

#16. I don't want what love is. I want what love is supposed to be.

N'Zuri Za Austin

#17. There really is nothing normal about being in love with someone. It's a million emotions with a million excuses.

Shannon L. Alder

#18. Control doesn't validate love; it validates the nonexistence of trust and the painful unwillingness to accept the truth.

Shannon L. Alder

#19. Great sex and awesome food is what conquered the beast, not beauty. The key to happiness is to fuck like a porn star and cook like a five star chef.

Travis Luedke

#20. It is better to be alone then to be in a relationship, while you are trying to figure out what love means to you.

Shannon L. Alder

#21. In relationships, everyone makes mistakes. If you are forgiven for yours, don't take it for granted.

Carlos Wallace

#22. When love and duty are one then grace is within your soul.

Shannon L. Alder

#23. At first the brain weighs a potential partner, and if the partner fits our ancestral wish list, we get a spike in the release of sex chemicals that makes us dizzy with a rush of unavoidable infatuation. It's the first step down the primeval path of pair-bonding.

Abhijit Naskar

#24. When we feel unworthy, we feel powerless. When we feel powerless, we shrink. When we shrink, we attract a match to that energy.

Anella Wetter

#25. When a man plays with your heart it is for one of two reasons: He knows he can or he is undecided.

Shannon L. Alder

#26. Never believe someone cares for you because of other people's reactions. Sometimes you have to drown out the noise from the crowd, in order to figure out if there is a song playing between the two of you or simply annoying static that you thought was a tune.

Shannon L. Alder

#27. It is more likely that a man and a woman develop romantic feelings for each other when they start dating after they have been friends for some time and feel already attracted to each other, than when they are total strangers trying to make it happen.

Linda Alfiori

#28. The words, I love you, are empty without clarification. Women prefer to be told what they can expect. It is measurable like a Weight Watcher's diet, with extra points at the end of the week if you don't cheat.

Shannon L. Alder

#29. Peace is not about who you can live with, but who you can't live without.

Shannon L. Alder

#30. Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it.

Shannon L. Alder

#31. The destination is not the journey. The destination is the person you choose to enjoy the journey with.

Shannon L. Alder

#32. Any woman has the power to be truly happy, with or without a man.

Linda Alfiori

#33. First law of pleasurable love-making in the long run, is that you don't keep naked pictures of your partner on your phone.

Abhijit Naskar

#34. Choosing a mate is not a matter of can they do the job, rather will they. A partner of "potential" doesn't make for a happy marriage. Their actions have to be in line with your needs.

Shannon L. Alder

#35. You will know you are in love when it doesn't matter if you sit in heaven or hell with that special someone just as long as they can make you laugh, while you put out the fires.

Shannon L. Alder

#36. There is no failure in loving someone, only in never letting them know.

Shannon L. Alder

#37. You can't be tempted, unless you want what is tempting you.

Shannon L. Alder

#38. Empowered Women 101: Confident women know the difference between being a meal ticket and being the meal.

Shannon L. Alder

#39. Being a good person doesn't mean you fit the life of every person you meet.

Shannon L. Alder

#40. Don't talk yourself into falling in love with someone. Either, you are in love or you are not. True love is not a choice. It is something you know in your heart when all guilt, doubt and fear are removed.

Shannon L. Alder

#41. Don't ever feel bad that someone couldn't give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of their soul with you, wherever you go. This is more than some people will ever have.

Shannon L. Alder

#42. Relationships are the flavors of life.

Pawan Mishra

#43. Blame doesn't empower you. It keeps you stuck in a place you don't want to be because you don't want to make the temporary, but painful decision, to be responsible for the outcome of your own life's happiness.

Shannon L. Alder

#44. The only man worth having in your life is one that would never let you walk away.

Shannon L. Alder

#45. Empowering Women 101-- A strong women knows that cheating isn't a mistake; it's a choice. The choice was made long before you found out.

Shannon L. Alder

#46. The only people who should know what is happening behind closed doors are the people living within the four walls.

Carlos Wallace

#47. You can spend the rest of your life fighting to be respected, accepted and understood by the people you have created a life with or you can start living a life where that isn't a daily goal and ambition in your relationship.

Shannon L. Alder

#48. If you never learned to hold onto someone, how could it possibly hurt now to let them go?

Shannon L. Alder

#49. If you have something over a person you're not in a relationship; you are in a situation.

Shannon L. Alder

#50. Such delicacies are relationships.

Pawan Mishra

#51. Love is so many things, but it is not safe.

Shannon L. Alder

#52. You will know what and who really matters to you the moment you feel you have lost them.

Shannon L. Alder

#53. Your soulmate wasn't suppose to be perfect. You were meant to see the cracks in her soul and fill them with what you have and she was meant to see yours. Together you would be complete.

Shannon L. Alder

#54. Either, you are in love with someone or you're not. Fear is complicated, not love.

Shannon L. Alder

#55. If you have to make a daily choice to be in a relationship then you are married to the past, not the person.

Shannon L. Alder

#56. If you have to convince someone to stay with you then they have already left.

Shannon L. Alder

#57. If you are hurting because they hurt then they are the ONE.

Shannon L. Alder

#58. The only healthy marriages that survive are the ones where two people became best friends and learned how to rescue one another, over and over again.

Shannon L. Alder