Top 100 Love Buddhism Quotes

#1. To love is to be balanced, to extend one's self beyond the sense of self.

Frederick Lenz

#2. Love is something that we don't control. We have to be ourselves. You can be sexual, nonsexual, asexual, bisexual, or trisexual and it really doesn't have a lot to do with enlightenment.

Frederick Lenz

#3. People love misery, they love to feel sorry for themselves, and they definitely don't want to be enlightened. That's the first thing they tell you at boot camp in the higher worlds.

Frederick Lenz

#4. As a dialectical teacher, I have had many lives where I have taught Zen and Tibetan Buddhism and mysticism. I teach in many different modalites. But the theme that unites them - is love.

Frederick Lenz

#5. O let us live in joy, in love among those who hate! Among men who hate, let us live in love.

Anonymous

#6. Thousands and thousands of incarnations and nothing to show for it. You must choose whether to follow the path of love or the path of attachment.

Frederick Lenz

#7. Relationships are a proving ground for love.

Frederick Lenz

#8. As an incarnation of love you put up with flack until it becomes detrimental to a person.

Frederick Lenz

#9. The most important thing is sensitivity. Many people have sex and don't feel anything, and that seems kind of sad to me. The answer is not necessarily the avoidance of sex, but learning to be sensitive and to love and to care.

Frederick Lenz

#10. Conquer the angry man by love.

Gautama Buddha

#11. For you know that soft is stronger than hard, water stronger than rock, love stronger than force. Vesadeva to Siddartha

Hermann Hesse

#12. Metta sees truly that our integrity is inviolate, no matter what our life situation may be. We do not need to fear anything. We are whole: our deepest happiness is intrinsic to the nature of our minds, and it is not damaged through uncertainty and change.

Sharon Salzberg

#13. The unconscious mind is a vast repository of experiences and associations that sorts things out much faster than the slow-moving conscious mind.

Sharon Salzberg

#14. Nirvana is a word that means enlightenment, being beyond the illusion of birth and death, the illusion of pain, the illusion of love, the illusion of time and life.

Frederick Lenz

#15. The secure attachment of Western psychology is actually akin to Buddhist non-attachment; avoid-ant attachment is the inverse of being mindful and present; and anxious attachment aligns with Buddhist notions of clinging and grasping.

Sharon Salzberg

#16. Our work is not to become a better person, but to become present to the perfection we already are.

Allan Lokos

#17. Let your love flow outward through the universe, To its height, its depth, its broad extent, A limitless love, without hatred or enmity. Then as you stand or walk, Sit or lie down, As long as you are awake, Strive for this with a one-pointed mind; Your life will bring heaven to earth.

Gautama Buddha

#18. Our greatest happiness comes from the experience of love & compassion.

Allan Lokos

#19. One foundation of loving relationships is curiosity, keeping open to the idea that we have much to learn even about those we have been close to for decades.

Sharon Salzberg

#20. The virtues of free enterprise can become distorted by greed & delusion.

Allan Lokos

#21. Part of why I love these angry, straight, white punks is that they are stripping the dharma of its bullshit, and applying it to contexts and styles that, even if they aren't mine, are at least different from the norm.

Jay Michaelson

#22. Buddhism has a term for the happiness we feel at someone else's success or good fortune. Sympathetic joy, as it is known, invites us to celebrate for others.

Sharon Salzberg

#23. You don't have to take drugs to be happy. You don't have to drink to be happy. You don't have to have people around you who love you to be happy. You don't need anything except the clarity of your own mind.

Frederick Lenz

#24. The aggregates that we pick up in the human plane will be washed away, and we will become pure spirit, pure light, pure love, and pure ecstasy.

Frederick Lenz

#25. Thoughts, words, emotions & deeds not coming from love are likely coming from fear.

Allan Lokos

#26. I have graduate students who have developed this ability to love and want to perfect it. Those are the students I spend a lot of time with because at this time they need that.

Frederick Lenz

#27. Don't try to hold people to you, don't try to push them away. Let life do everything for you. This is the proper attitude on the path of love.

Frederick Lenz

#28. Science tells us that love not only diminishes the experience of physical pain but can make us - and our beloveds - healthier.

Sharon Salzberg

#29. In the chakras, it's the heart chakra, anahata, the central chakra, three above and three below, which symbolizes happiness and love, psychic oneness, spiritual understanding.

Frederick Lenz

#30. In short: if one has nothing of value to say, only that which is impure defilement, avoid them. They are masters of the dark. Of no use.

Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo

#31. The idea that traumatic residues - or unresolved stories - can be inherited is groundbreaking.

Sharon Salzberg

#32. Love has no meaning without understanding

Thich Nhat Hanh

#33. It is the rub that polishes the jewel," Enso Roshi says. "Nobody ever gets to nirvana without going through samsara. Nobody ever gets to heaven, without going through hell. The center of all things, the truth, is surrounded by demons.

T. Scott McLeod

#34. When we practice metta, we open continuously to the truth of our actual experience, changing our relationship to life.

Sharon Salzberg

#35. You cannot compel someone to love. Love is like the wind. It comes when it does, it stops when it does, it changes direction when it does. Who are you and I to criticize the wind?

Frederick Lenz

#36. Meditation can be a refuge, but it is not a practice in which real life is ever excluded. The strength of mindfulness is that it enables us to hold difficult thoughts and feelings in a different way - with awareness, balance, and love

Sharon Salzberg

#37. Living in a story of a limited self - to any degree - is not love.

Sharon Salzberg

#38. Love is the chariot of emotion which takes us to our beloved. When we love we see beyond the prism of illusion.

Frederick Lenz

#39. It seems to me that there's a terrible misunderstanding between us. It seems to me that I love you a great deal, my friends.

Frederick Lenz

#40. The problem with love is attachment; love makes you dependent. Unattached love - you love for the hell of it.

Frederick Lenz

#41. There is no loneliness when you meditate, you feel eternity. How could you ever be lonely? You just feel God's love for you and that sustains you. It's totally clear; it's part of every aspect of your being.

Frederick Lenz

#42. Compassion grows in us when we know how the energy of love is available all around us.

Sharon Salzberg

#43. No being incapable of controlling their own mind or developing ethics and a loving character can ever be a Master. First we must have accomplishment.

Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo

#44. If you seek the realms of light, the best thing to do is to meditate with love and the gentle aliveness. Meditation should not be forced.

Frederick Lenz

#45. Like water poured from one vessel to another, metta flows freely, taking the shape of each situation without changing its essence.

Sharon Salzberg

#46. When you love someone, you shouldn't feel that they should love in return. You have to give people freedom.

Frederick Lenz

#47. Pain & suffering requires time, awareness, and an intentional practice of self-love to disentangle.

Sharon Salzberg

#48. Like a caring mother
holding and guarding the life
of her only child,
so with a boundless heart
of lovingkindness,
hold yourself and all beings
as your beloved children.

Gautama Buddha

#49. Taking in another's criticism, even when it's offered out of love, requires courage.

Sharon Salzberg

#50. They say Casanova made love to over 10,000 women. Do you think it changed him? It probably aged him a little bit. But I doubt that it changed him. If it had changed him, he would have stopped somewhere along the line and done something a little different.

Frederick Lenz

#51. As I cooked in the cauldron of motherhood, the incredible love I felt for my children opened my heart and brought me a much greater understanding of universal love. It made me understand the suffering of the world much more deeply.

Tsultrim Allione

#52. Time holds the final claim check for everything we gain or attain in this lifetime. All of our possessions, along with the people we love, are only loaned to us for a very short time by eternity.

Frederick Lenz

#53. I learned from my own teachers, a long time ago in another universe, the quality of quiet fortitude that is renewed by a person's love of light.

Frederick Lenz

#54. Love more deeply and without the sense of what you love being your personal possession.

Frederick Lenz

#55. Balance is to choose happiness, to feel that the purpose of life is to love, not necessarily to be loved, to be happy, to be conscious, to be aware, to be fulfilled.

Frederick Lenz

#56. The best thing that you can do to deal with these high speed times is to slow down, inwardly, to take a little more time for meditation, a little more time to enjoy your morning cup of coffee or tea, and to look around at the people in your life with a little more love.

Frederick Lenz

#57. Focus on the heart center and feel love. There is a flower there, but it's like a rose folded up. As you meditate, feel that the flower is opening. Each time you open a set of petals you're going deeper into eternal awareness.

Frederick Lenz

#58. Love is the only rule in self-discovery. If you've forgotten that rule, you've forgotten everything. It's not what you can get; it's what you can give.

Frederick Lenz

#59. Love has very little to do with a person. It comes from us. You can love a surprisingly great number of people.

Frederick Lenz

#60. When we love others we see our oneness with others.

Frederick Lenz

#61. When we pay attention to sensations in our bodies, we can feel that love is the energetic opposite of fear.

Sharon Salzberg

#62. Maybe what we really need is to change our relationship to what is, to see who we are with the strength of a generous spirit & a wise heart.

Sharon Salzberg

#63. Love is not reasonable. If we could assign it to the reasonable world, it would not be useful.

Frederick Lenz

#64. When you find out that there was never anything in the dark side to be afraid of ... Nothing is left but to love.

Alan W. Watts

#65. To truly love ourselves, we must challenge our beliefs that we need to be different or better.

Sharon Salzberg

#66. Love requires learning to love ourselves in the mirror, and learning to look other people in the eye. Buddhism, in turn, asks us to pause and look at even the subtlest causal connections and take our appreciation of them to greater depths.

Ethan Nichtern

#67. Everyone we interact with has the capacity to surprise us in an infinite number of ways. What can first open us up to each of our innate capacities for love is merely to recognize that.

Sharon Salzberg

#68. Feel the wind. This wind blows from world to world and from life to death. This is the wind of dharma. Be in love with the wind. It is an intimate lover. It enraptures you. It blows you through eternity.

Frederick Lenz

#69. A number of Guru's feel that there is something wrong or sick about being gay. I think it really doesn't matter what your sexual preference is; what matters is the quality of your love.

Frederick Lenz

#70. Happiness is not dependent upon outer circumstance. Happiness is falling in love with everything around you, everything inside of you.

Frederick Lenz

#71. I love so and so, how can I let go of them? You don't have to. You do whatever you chose. What you think, you become. Your thoughts are strongly affected by those you are emotionally open to.

Frederick Lenz

#72. Love is the bridge that joins all the worlds together.

Frederick Lenz

#73. In the world of interactive multi-media highways we are all traveling somewhere interactively and we are all shopping for something, our dreams, our hopes, our ambitions for ourselves, for those we love - these little scenarios we play out endlessly in our mind.

Frederick Lenz

#74. So often we operate from ideas of love that don't fit our reality.

Sharon Salzberg

#75. One should rest with a peaceful and loving mind. Even wrathful emanating Buddhas manifest solely out of the wish to liberate beings.

Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo

#76. Love where there is no reason to love

Sangharakshita

#77. I deal with two types of students. Those who have a very deep-seated knowledge of love, which are few, or those in all their lives have ignored love.

Frederick Lenz

#78. Always walk in peace and beauty; in grace and love, speak only truth and you will be blessed. Where we are, let there be light.

Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo

#79. You don't have to love yourself unconditionally before you can give or receive real love.

Sharon Salzberg

#80. How could sufferings be relieved through purification? To know the Path is to get lost at the ford. Indeed, sickness comes from worldly love And poverty begins with the pursuit of greed.

Wang Wei

#81. Sensations of peace, joy, and love will enter into you. They will be very subtle at first. Then they will grow stronger.

Frederick Lenz

#82. Forgiveness is really about absolution: to set free. But if you look carefully at the dynamic, the one you're setting free is yourself.

Darrell Calkins

#83. Love is something that comes to us in life. Quietly, it overwhelms us. It is something that you cultivate. You make it happen.

Frederick Lenz

#84. Hate is the last refuge of the ignorant. Love is the medicine. Compassion is the gift of the awakened ones.

Jetsunma Ahkon Lhamo

#85. Equanimity can be hard to talk about.

Sharon Salzberg

#86. Watch the thought and its ways with care, and let it spring from love born out of concern for all beings.

Gautama Buddha

#87. Tantric Zen is for the individual who is in love with both the finite and the infinite, who gets a kick out of this weird transitory world and at the same time, wants to step beyond it.

Frederick Lenz

#88. When a civilization, a race, a people, a society, when they lack love, they are soon destroyed.

Frederick Lenz

#89. Societies on this planet are based upon fear, not upon love. The strong dominate the weak.

Frederick Lenz

#90. We can free ourselves from the old stories that have reduced us & allow real love for ourselves to blossom.

Sharon Salzberg

#91. There is no reason not to love. There is no reason not to be joyous. There is no reason not to celebrate because all of this means nothing, absolutely nothing. So why not be happy?

Frederick Lenz

#92. I'd love to find some people to teach advanced meditation to. I've been looking for many years. There are a few around. Once in a while I run into another one. It's a very limited league at this time, in this world.

Frederick Lenz

#93. Then there are most of my students who don't know a whole lot about love. You don't know what fun love is. I will remain inaccessible to you until you learn how to love.

Frederick Lenz

#94. Practice love in your relationships. The key to this is avoiding expectation. It's expectation that makes most people miserable in love - the return on the investment.

Frederick Lenz

#95. Mindfulness is the agent of our freedom. Through mindfulness we arrive at faith we grow in wisdom & we attain equanimity.

Sharon Salzberg

#96. It's necessary when you follow the path of love to love those around you first. Desire tells us that we should have someone else in our life.

Frederick Lenz

#97. Live in joy, in love,
even among those who hate.
Live in joy, in health,
even among the afflicted.
Live in joy, in peace,
even among the troubled.
Look within, be still.
Free from fear and attachment,
know the sweet joy of the way.

Gautama Buddha

#98. God stipulates in the Bible that Jesus Followers are to love and serve everyone regardless of their faith or lack of it. But, this does not require us to honour and respect their Biblically-heinous cultural practises like multiculturalism does!

Gary Patton

#99. Identifying the source of our personal narratives helps us to release its negative aspects and re-frame it in ways that promote wholeness.

Sharon Salzberg

#100. Tragedy is the violation of love.

Frederick Lenz

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