Frederick Salomon Perls Quotes

#1. I believe that any single dream contains the essential message about our existence.

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#2. Lose your mind and come to your senses.

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#3. The person most in control is the person who can give up control.

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#4. A thousand plastic flowers don't make a desert bloom. A thousand empty faces don't fill an empty room.

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#5. Those that fight don't listen, those that listen don't fight.

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#6. Humans don't really improve on our own functioning, we only interfere with it, distort it, and disguise it.

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#7. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful. If not, it can't be helped.

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#8. We live in a house of mirrors and think we are looking out the windows.

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#9. It feels much nobler to feel guilty than resentful, and it takes more courage to express resentment than guilt. With expressing guilt you expect to pacify your opponent; with expressing resentment you might stir up hostility in him.

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#10. I do my thing and you do your thing. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I. And if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.

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#11. If you take responsibility for what you are doing to yourself, how you produce your symptoms, how you produce your illness, how you produce your existence-the very moment you get in touch with yourself-growth begins, integration begins.

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#12. To be enraged with a dumb thing, Captain Ahab, seems blasphemous.

Herman Melville

#13. I wonder why people use only walls for hanging pictures.

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#14. As Albert Einstein once said to me: "Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity." But what is much more widespread than the actual stupidity is the playing stupid, turning off your ear, not listening, not seeing ... playing helpless.

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#15. Teaching means to show a person that something is possible.

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#16. No privileged order ever did see the wrongs of its own victims ...

Elizabeth Cady Stanton

#17. Gestalt Prayer
I do my thing and you do yours.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I,
And if by chance we find each other, then it is beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.

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#18. Blossoms shower, and then they go on showering - they never stop. The blossoms that showered for Buddha are still showering. The blossoms that showered for Subhuti are still showering.

Osho

#19. Awareness in itself is healing.

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#20. You cannot achieve happiness. Happiness happens and is a transitory stage. Imagine how happy I felt when I got relief from bladder pressure. How long did that happiness last?

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#21. I have one aim only: to impart a fraction of the meaning of the word now.

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#22. Nobody can stand truth if it is told to him. Truth can be tolerated only if you discover it yourself because then, the pride of discovery makes the truth palatable.

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#23. To mature means to take responsibility for your life, to be on your own. Psychoanalysis fosters the infantile state by considering that the past is responsible for the illness.

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#24. Learning is the discovery that something is possible

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#25. If you are bored, you are not paying attention.

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#26. Nothing changes until it becomes what it is.

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#27. Business owners have made a strong case to me that they need guest workers. But none has suggested that these workers should be placed on a path to citizenship.

John Shadegg

#28. Anxiety is the gap between now and later.

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#29. Be mindful of intention. Intention is the seed that creates our future.

Jack Kornfield

#30. Have a dialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they always start out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference.

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#31. I am not in this world to live up to other people's expectations, nor do I feel that the world must live up to mine.

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#32. So if you find out how you prevent yourself from growing, from using your potential, you have away of increasing this, making life richer, making you more and more capable of mobilizing yourself. And our potential is based upon a very peculiar attitude: to live and review every fresh second

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