Patricia McConnell Quotes

#1. A crisis of confidence is so common that it should be considered a universal part of the adoption process.

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#2. My friends in prison were mostly women more like myself: not historical figures who I did not relate to as peers, but hookers and addicts.

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#3. I was already a wreck when I went in, and prison nearly destroyed what little was left of me. I was worse when I came out than I was when I went in, and was not positively changed in any way.

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#4. The loss of a sexual life is one of the worst things about getting really old. The worst thing.

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#5. At eighty-one, health club-lusting is as close as I'll ever come to getting laid again.

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#6. My published works are concrete evidence that I exist.

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#7. One of the principle things life has taught me is that we always have a choice. When we say we "can't," we usually mean we're just not willing to pay the price.

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#8. I don't believe anyone can go through the prison experience without being changed by it. The experience becomes part of your identity forever.

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#9. I couldn't stand living in a society that admires the emperor's new clothes, when I see so clearly that he is naked.

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#10. The only thing I remember writing in prison is a couple of poems for an inmate magazine they did once a year.

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#11. Prison experience puts distance between me and any person who hasn't been there, done that.

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#12. I can say now is that sneaking up on people is a major delight in my old age, but it always has been. A desire, even a need, to shock.

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#13. [Some dogs] develop blood feuds with other dogs that are so serious that the only silver lining is a dog's inability to build nuclear weapons in the backyard. -- Patricia McConnell, A Tale of Two Species

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#14. I was addicted to amphetamines at the time I got busted, but I tend to think I was on a determined, self-destruct course that had little to do with the effect of Benzedrine.

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#15. I'm actually a lowlife. On the street at fifteen and also in jail for the first time at that age, and off and on the street until my mid-twenties.

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#16. The fact that educated white women automatically assume that we have similar backgrounds annoys me. We don't. I feel like I'm in a certain kind of drag.

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#17. People think I'm educated because I talk and write well, but the fact is I never finished high school. I've read a lot, is all.

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#18. My husband regarded my prison past as a dirty secret and never asked me one single question about it. But what I had experienced and witnessed was eating at me and I needed to "tell somebody."

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