Top 100 Jill Soloway Quotes
#1. After 'Nikki' and 'Steve Harvey,' I had written on a show called 'The Oblongs,' which was pretty well respected and had a lot of 'Simpsons' writers on it. So I was a TV writer with an interesting voice at that moment.
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#2. I was running the show on 'United States of Tara' and 'How To Make It In America' where I could say, 'Okay, I'm in charge of everything now.' But it still wasn't my show.
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#3. You just have to say over and over again: 'I am a director.' Nobody gives it to you. Nobody anoints you.
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#4. Someone will say to me, Oh that's so Jewish to interrupt. I say to myself, okay, is that code for you hate Jews? Or am I just being paranoid?
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#5. We're a whole culture of people who have a really hard time seeing beyond themselves.
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#6. I don't think it's a contradiction to find painfulness funny.
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#7. There is a real comfort with the position of the victim, which can either result in true empathy or deep paranoia.
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#8. To me, it wasn't 'Star Wars' that shaped me; it was more 'Mary Tyler Moore' and, nowadays, 'Louie' and 'Girls.'
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#9. Most people privilege the technology, almost as if actors are in service to the machine.
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#10. So many features at Sundance seemed to be powered more on the director's need to be a director than any particular story.
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#11. 'Six Feet Under,' for me, was college. Alan Ball and Alan Poul ran that show and really taught me what it meant to really run a show in a classic way.
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#12. A lot of the people I know connect through working. We're all so ambitious. Sometimes my friends will say, 'I want to hang out with you.' And I just go, 'Well, let's do a project together.' That's the only way I can.
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#13. I like to create a community where people want to come and have a good time and do their best work.
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#14. I'm a fan of Louis C.K., I'm a fan of Lena Dunham. I love shows about people that other people would consider unlikable, or, like, the work of Woody Allen and Albert Brooks.
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#15. Being pretty ... I'm just confused about it. I mean, I love getting my nails done, but I also like dressing like a boy. I think I feel most myself when I'm mixing femininity and masculinity. Like, fifty-fifty.
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#16. There are times when folks will point out certain characteristics I have, like me being an interruptor, and attribute them to my Jewish identity.
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#17. We grew up watching Woody Allen and Albert Brooks movies, and we see this neurotic, annoying, unlikeable male at the center of a story, and people root for him anyway. I think that's really what we have been craving as women is the hero who doesn't look perfect and doesn't act perfectly.
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#18. If you go to Europe, public bathrooms have any-gender sink areas and stalls for everyone to use. This is completely reasonable. It potentially involves the destruction of the urinal industry, which I think people would be happy to see go away.
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#19. My family gets incredibly tense and stressed out around traveling. There's something really beautiful in that vulnerability.
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#20. Guys, there's only one thing I hate more than bloggers who start sentences with 'guys' - and it's those mealy-mouth hipsters who crochet codpieces and their ye-olde-sideburned friends who pickle stuff and slaughter their own gluten-free goats.
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#21. There's always been something about Jeffrey Tambor, not only as an actor but as a person, where his ability to embody a sort of very dignified feminine way of being just - this was just very clear to me.
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#23. In the little travel I've done to other countries, the Jews there embraced me saying, Come to our house, come and have Shabbat with us. Jews in the Diaspora. I didn't imagine an Israeli traveling to the U.S. would feel this intensity of a forced relationship.
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#24. I've noticed that women are always punished for their sexuality in popular culture.
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#25. I'm very aware that just driving blindly towards money won't get me anything. I drive blindly towards making the world a better place.
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#26. Every project is a race between your enthusiasm and your ability to get it done. Go fast. Don't slow down. A year from now, new things will interest you.
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#27. I wouldn't necessarily say that 'Alpha House' or 'Betas' embodied a particular vision of Amazon of the kind of brand or programming they were gonna do. I think those were the first lucky creators who hit it right for them.
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#28. Something I've really been wanting to do, ever since 'Six Feet Under' ended, was create my own version of this idealized writer's room as well as the ideal family.
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#29. As much as possible, I put my family first.
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#30. I think kids in general are much more capable of understanding the idea of being transgender than adults.
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#31. I am beyond excited to share 'Transparent' with the world through Amazon. They've been so supportive through this incredible process.
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#32. I've always been really interested in how people's identities are shaped by where they come from and how they want to get away from where they come from.
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#33. Independent filmmakers already have their heads around people on their couches watching their movies.
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#34. I'm a naturally open person - some might say radically open.
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#35. It's really easy to be funny. You get a lot of funny people in a room, the show is funny.
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#36. It's really easy to do sad; you just put on some sad music and write dramatically - everybody can do that.
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#37. The network shows have this very commercial voice that you have to adhere to, and the cable shows, it's kind of like winning the lottery. The independent film world is a world you can actually get to. You can get the under-a-million-dollar film by finding a good cast and financing.
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#38. It's hard enough to be a lady writer. Doubly hard to be a funny lady writer.
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#39. In most shows, there's usually a hero or a protagonist, and even if there are multiple heroes or protagonists, most shows try and make it so you really always know who's the good guy and who's the bad guy.
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#40. For clothes, I like this little store on Fountain, Matrushka Construction. Beth Ann Whittaker and Laura Howe make amazing things. You can get a designer skirt with cool embroidery for 40 bucks instead of $400 or $4,000.
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#41. I love TV, I love writing, but I love movements more.
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#42. For me, when I'm not working, the day goes by so fast. I never have enough time - getting a manicure, getting a pedicure, getting my workout in, making sure that I ate healthy. Those things can become treacherous to the mind.
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#43. I really like writing television, and I like the collaborative writers room feeling. It's ten people, and you're together every day laughing your heads off.
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#44. On Sunday morning, it's Brooklyn Bagels on Beverly Boulevard. We get them hot. Then we walk some of the famous Silver Lake steps or hike in the hills to the highest vantage point to see the reservoir.
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#45. I haven't made art about Israel. There's a covert subtext of Jewish identity in my artwork.
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#46. I think I've always had that struggle my whole life, of feeling a little bit more gender-neutral, feeling more comfortable as a creative person when I'm dressed like a boy, when I'm dressed more masculine.
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#47. I've been writing about misogyny for 20 years and trying to understand what femininity means for my entire career.
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#48. If you're in a room and can be seen by actors, you need to understand that you can be felt by them.
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#50. My interest in community is what fuels my work as a writer, more than just wanting to write or just wanting to have a TV show.
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#51. My sister and I created a show called 'The Real Life Brady Bunch,' which was sort of a theatrical sensation that got us attention in L.A. and New York.
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#52. I used to think that, when I was a director, I would have a very specific vision of what everything would look like, but now I am more of a camp counselor.
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#53. I said to my parents that I don't even know if there should be an Israel. And they were just so upset and hurt.
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#54. Fear of anti-Semitism almost is part of our religion. Throughout time Jewish people have experienced traumas that we relive in a lot of the things we celebrate.
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#55. By recognizing your own vulnerability you can recognize and identify with the vulnerability in others.
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#56. I think, because of the Internet, we're not looking at the very, very narrow channels for distribution that there used to be.
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#57. In my own work I am invested in art as a way to break through impasses, whether those impasses are personal, social, or political.
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#58. You have to totally change the way that society's structured in order to being to heal.
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#59. You must speak the vision of your project in a way that convinces people to pay for it. If they won't pay for it, that is the artist's fault. It is my fault. It is your fault. It is not the executive's fault or the world's.
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#60. Years of my life were lived knowing that I'd get a book out of them one day.
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#61. For me to be able to punch above my weight creatively, to actually take a stand for what I was doing, I had to take on everything. I had to be the person who says, 'I wrote it. I directed it.'
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#62. I think of myself as a producer. As a producer and as a showrunner, I already understand what it meant to gather people into a room and step back, to create the boundaries of 'everything's okay' to allow TV writers to go to their craziest places.
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#63. I'm embarrassed that people will know that I can't ride a bicycle. For years, I have been feigning bad ankles and saying I wasn't in the mood for a bike ride.
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#64. I really relate to the feeling of falling in love 10 times a day and wishing I could never stop falling in love.
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#65. I've always wondered what it means to the Republican Party to be pro-Israel. My husband says that is is because certain sects of Christianity need Jews in Israel for the second coming.
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#66. It's a struggle every day to get people to invest financially in portrayals of women that aren't satisfying to straight white men.
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#67. I love a kind of shambling outsider protagonist who always feels like they're 'other.'
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#68. I've been playing with this idea in my mind that the hero's journey that we're all taught as screenwriters may resonate more specifically for male protagonists and maybe even male viewers.
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#69. It's really just a freedom that we have with Amazon to push ourselves creatively. It allowed me to say, you know, okay this is going to be a little half-hour film here to start the season.
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#71. I always wanted to find my voice and claim my tone, but I was doing it through the steps of being a TV writer. I had the executive producer title. I was running the room.
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#72. From the moment you say 'action,' this is the fun part - things should happen that surprise you, excite you, scare you, turn you on, make you laugh. If things aren't surprising you, when you say 'cut,' whisper things to the actors that will make them do things that do surprise you.
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#73. I was talking to my friend who's Israeli and she said that from the moment you're born, you're taught to hate the Palestinians. That's it. That's your life. That's what you learn from day one.
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#74. Watching 'Girls,' it was really angering for me at first, because I really had spent decades hiding unlikable, unattractive Jewish girls in likable, attractive, non-Jewish actors and characters.
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#75. My purpose as an artist is to heal the divided feminine in our culture. Well, okay wait, that sounds incredibly cheesy and like something a massage therapist might do at Esalen.
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#76. I've been told by people I respect that flashbacks only work if they have their own narrative, but they can't be part of the present narrative.
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#77. At East Side Jews, we can take a risk because it isn't all about the rules. I started it to create a space for all those people who wouldn't go to temple because they were scared of getting the rules wrong.
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#78. I think generational trauma also plays a big part in the reactions to Israeli politics.
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#79. I just feel like content is content; people want to see it resonate.
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#80. One of the things that feels so challenging is how questioning Israel and the idea of a Jewish state somehow opens the door for other sorts of questions - and wounds.
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#81. Getting into Sundance is a certain sort of passport to a level of anxiety I've never experienced, even having had a baby in the NICU for a week. For about ten minutes, you're a world-class director. Then you become an entry-level, harried, low level concierge with absolutely no juice.
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#82. I still see storytelling for men by men that is always reinforcing the male gaze.
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#83. It's interesting to think about the history of Israel in relation to the history of the U.S.. There were Native Americans living here that U.S. settlers totally displaced, and that narrative is not connected with the Isreal-Palestinian struggle at all.
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#84. Normally, I think the people you would use on your first film, it would be a real struggle to bring them with you onto your television show. I just brought every single person with and expanded my little indie film world.
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#85. People who don't have experience setting healthy boundaries, they have secrets instead.
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#87. The first time that I saw people actually make the thing that I wrote was my first episode of 'Six Feet Under.' It was called 'Back To The Garden.'
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#88. I took all my TV experience and what I learned about - by writing and directing and bringing a movie to Sundance - about the realities of the independent film market: 'Transparent' is the marriage of those two situations.
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#89. I was the kind of Jew who'd be in a bar, somebody would say it's Yom Kippur, and I'd go, 'Really?'
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#90. The more horrible the truth that you admit, the better you connect. You have to tell the truth.
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#91. The only way things will change will be when we're all wilder, louder, riskier, sillier, unexpectedly overflowing with surprise.
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#92. Your first job, I tell people I mentor, is managing your affect. Be nice and say nice things. Make it so that the people walk away from interacting with you and say, 'That was fun.' That will make them want to come back and do it again.
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#93. I guess a show like 'Entourage' would be wish fulfillment, right? But 'Entourage' is wish fulfillment for men. It's that you can be kind of schlumpy-looking and have access to someone famous and find yourself at a pool party surrounded by girls in bikinis.
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#94. When I went to Sundance for 'Afternoon Delight,' I came back feeling like I wanted to take my experience that I learned from directing and bring that into a series.
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#95. I noticed that people were craving a way of reinterpreting tradition and of being Jewish without joining a synagogue.
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#96. Perfection would be something that you see in 'Architectural Digest.'
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#97. I really feel like becoming a director came from other women saying, 'Yeah, you can do this.' I wanted to direct 'Six Feet Under,' and no, they didn't let me.
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#98. If you can laugh with your friends over something, you own it.
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#99. There's something about the kind of unconditional wild joy of creating that you have with your siblings that I am always trying to get back to.
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#100. I'm glad that Jewish kids are taught about the Holocaust and other stories in our history, but I wonder if there are ways that this information and narrative can be transmitted differently.
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