Jill Bialosky Quotes

#1. There are certain things in life for which we can never be prepared.

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#2. I am thinking about you, I say to her. Can you hear me?

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#3. We do not want to comprehend that people may and do die of emotional pain, or to recognize the terror in ourselves when we cannot seem to help someone in despair
when our words are empty.

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#4. We enter people's lives and then realize we've walked into a deep and long history that shapes and gives form to our every moment.

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#5. Suicides do not end their lives because they are weak, mentally ill, or depressed - though certainly they may be all those things. They are in blinding, all-consuming psychic pain, and perhaps on that final poisonous day they can find no reason not to.

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#6. Maybe secrets are only told when you're trying to protect the real truth from coming out. pg 168

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#7. How are you? How was your flight? He hit the Send button without recognizing that in writing to her he was taking a step back from his life as he knew it and into the unknown future, for one cannot embark upon the new without giving up something in return.

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#8. Our losses become the road maps for our future.

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#9. I had wanted to get married, but I realized now that I never wanted to be a 'wife.

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#10. As I listen to the stories about those who suffered and ended their lives it seems to me that it isn't as if they wanted to die, but more that they wished to feel better and didn't know how.

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#11. If I had to describe what love meant, really, not in the abstract or the sentimental or the way I'd imagined it before, that I'd say it was completely irrational, made up of so many opposites, the kind that couldn't exist without the other: bliss and sadness, courage and fear, adoration and disgust.

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#12. We have no control over what haunts us. We're helpless to it.

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#13. That's why I'm compelled to tell this story - don't we all have one secret that has shaped us we are burning to reveal? - to convince myself that I'm entitled to my own life. (pg 4)

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#14. To get through the night, I sometimes imagined the sky filled with a canopy of stars. I imagined that each star contained the soul of a girl or boy who had died too young, and the light the stars gave off was their brightness.

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#15. I suppose no one is truly dead when we go on loving them.

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#16. She believes that her daughter was in agony and that she chose not to suffer; she needs to believe that through her death Kim now lives on a higher plane. "Why else are flowers so beautiful?" she says to me. "why is the sky such a perfect shade of blue? There has to be more than the here and now.

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