Westheimer Quotes

#1. I don't like to see teenage men wearing very tight jeans. The sight of an erection belongs in the privacy of the bedroom, living room, or kitchen floor.

Ruth Westheimer

#2. Boredom is the biggest problem. The same position. Same day of the week. It becomes boring when you don't bring any added flowers home.

Ruth Westheimer

#3. Don't stint on foreplay - or afterplay. Be inventive!

Ruth Westheimer

#4. There is no scientific proof that any food increases sexual drive.

Ruth Westheimer

#5. It is a catastrophe, all of this virtual being together. I think there are people who get hooked on the internet. If they need to look at explicitly sexual material to be aroused there is a problem.

Ruth Westheimer

#6. The time has come when women should pay for a gigolo. Why should only rich men have young, beautiful women? Rich women should have young, beautiful men.

Ruth Westheimer

#7. A couple of months in the laboratory can frequently save a couple of hours in the library.

Frank Westheimer

#8. It's up to the man to not be offended when she tells him what she needs. He shouldn't say, "I know that!" And he shouldn't say, "The woman that I had before you had ten orgasms without her telling me anything!"

Ruth Westheimer

#9. Don't criticize in the sack. Discuss constructively later.

Ruth Westheimer

#10. When it comes to sex, the most important six inches are the ones between the ears.

Ruth Westheimer

#11. Skiers make the best lovers because they don't sit in front of a television like couch potatoes. They take a risk and they wiggle their behinds. They also meet new people on the ski lift.

Ruth Westheimer

#12. The taste of chocolate is a sensual pleasure in itself, existing in the same world as sex ... For myself, I can enjoy the wicked pleasure of chocolate ... entirely by myself. Furtiveness makes it better.

Ruth Westheimer

#13. I want people to see me or read about me and think about sex.

Ruth Westheimer

#14. Sex is still the most interesting subject under the sun. People will say my wife is too tired or my husband is too tired, and I listen and I say 'go for help.'

Ruth Westheimer

#15. For some strange reason I can put five bullets into that red thing in the middle of the target.

Ruth Westheimer

#16. Part of my success is because I'm very old-fashioned.

Ruth Westheimer

#17. Don't share your fantasies unless you're sure your partner really wants to hear them.

Ruth Westheimer

#18. You can either give in to negative feelings or fight them, and I'm of the belief that you should fight them.

Ruth Westheimer

#19. For some people, 'ten feet tall' is just a metaphor. For me, it's more than twice my height!

Ruth Westheimer

#20. Remember, attraction is only one part of a relationship. Loyalty, commitment, responsibility and maturity make up the rest.

Ruth Westheimer

#21. It's pornography for me only when it involves violence or children.

Ruth Westheimer

#22. I'm never embarrassed to say, "I don't know."

Ruth Westheimer

#23. Testosterone levels are highest in the morning.

Ruth Westheimer

#24. I am worried that the next generation will not be able to have a real conversation.

Ruth Westheimer

#25. Why spend a day in the library when you can learn the same thing by working in the laboratory for a month?

Frank Westheimer

#26. Tel Aviv, with its young Olim community, is the sexiest thing on the entire planet.

Ruth Westheimer

#27. Talking from morning to night about sex has helped my skiing, because I talk about movement, about looking good, about taking risks.

Ruth Westheimer

#28. A lesson taught with humor is a lesson retained.

Ruth Westheimer

#29. My favorite animal is the turtle. The reason is that in order for the turtle to move, it has to stick its neck out.

Ruth Westheimer

#30. Sex is not a sin. Many people have complained that this is taking all the fun out of sex.

Ruth Westheimer

#31. Our way is not soft grass; it's a mountain path with lots of rocks. But it goes upwards, forward, toward the sun.

Ruth Westheimer