Top 48 Shain Quotes
#1. We tend to think of the rational as a higher order, but it is the emotional that makes our lives. One often learns more from ten days of agony than from ten years of contentment. MERLE SHAIN
Julia Cameron
#2. Life is like fording a river, stepping from one slippery stone to another, and you must rejoice every time you don't lose your balance, and learn to laugh at all the times you do.
Merle Shain
#3. Men who take advantage of one woman take advantage of them all ...
Merle Shain
#4. The roots of love sink down and deep and strike out far, and they are arteries that feed our lives, so we must see that they get the water and sun they need so they can nourish us. And when you put something good into the world, something good comes back to you.
Merle Shain
#5. You can employ men and hire hands to work for you, but you must win their hearts to have them work with you.
Merle Shain
#6. Perhaps the old view of 'Me breadwinner, you hausfrau' worked for our grandparents, when people obligingly popped off before boring each other to death, but it won't work any longer because we are living too long and divorce is needed today to do what death acomplished more economically before.
Merle Shain
#7. It has been said that a lot of women of our generation "grew up to be the men they always wanted to marry
Merle Shain
#8. The best kind of men have a certainty in themselves that isn't done in when countered by a certainty in their women, and they are much adored.
Merle Shain
#9. Friends are people who help you be more yourself, more the person you are intended to be.
Merle Shain
#10. Sex deepens love and love deepens sex, so physical intimacy transforms everything and playing with it is playing with fire.
Merle Shain
#11. Through tattered clothes, small vices do appear. Robes and furred gowns hide all.
Merle Shain
#12. No marriage is one person's failure any more than it's one person's success, so it works best to see a marriage that has ended simply as something that didn't work out.
Merle Shain
#13. Girls gave sex to get love and boys gave love to get sex and conning girls was the favorite indoor sport.
Merle Shain
#14. There are really only two ways to approach life - as victim or as gallant fighter - and you must decide if you want to act or react, deal your own cards or play with a stacked deck. And if you don't decide which way to play with life, it always plays with you.
Merle Shain
#15. Until you divest yourself of the notion that you are a collection of needs, an empty vessel that someone else must fill up, there will be no safe place to harbor yourself, no safe shore to reach. As long as you think mostly of getting, you will have nothing real to give.
Merle Shain
#16. The people in your life are like the pillars on your porch.
Sometimes they hold you up, and sometimes they lean on you.
Sometimes it's enough to know they are standing by.
Merle Shain
#17. The conflict between what one is and who one is expected to be touches all of us. And sometimes, rather than reach for what one could be, we choose the comfort of the failed role, preferring to be the victim of circumstance, the person who didn't have a chance.
Merle Shain
#18. Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
Merle Shain
#19. There are some decisions in life that only you can make.
Merle Shain
#20. You have to be very careful when you give to others that you don't tell them how great you are rather than how much you value them.
Merle Shain
#21. Loyalty is an asset, independent and scarce, parceled out among different contestants for power. No ruling government or nonruling group enjoys absolute loyalty - no contestant can have the whole pie.
Yossi Shain
#22. One can never change the past, only the hold it has on you, and while nothing in your life is reversible, you can reverse it nevertheless.
Merle Shain
#23. The day you spend hoping, the day you spend waiting, the day you spend in despair, is a day in your life as much as the tomorrow you hope for, but which may never come, so betting today on tomorrow is always a bad bet.
Merle Shain
#24. There are many pages in the book, many kinds of lives we each can live, many ways to be rich, and even more to be poor.
Merle Shain
#25. Whether the melon falls on the knife or the knife falls on the melon, it's the melon that suffers." And so it would appear to me
Merle Shain
#26. One can't run in a park without a dog or make angels in the snow without a child and there are things one can't do without a lover, so the loss of the lover is like an amputation and the patient goes into shock.
Merle Shain
#27. Each of us is a seed, a silent promise, and it is always Spring.
Merle Shain
#28. Compassion is the thing that leads you gently back to yourself.
Merle Shain
#29. But who would rush at a benighted man, and give him two black eyes for being blind?
Merle Shain
#30. There are no perfect men of course, but some are more perfect than others, and we can use all of those we can get.
Merle Shain
#31. It takes a lot of mulch, love does, to create a froth.
Merle Shain
#32. Love is short, forgetting is long, and understanding longer still.
Merle Shain
#33. It takes great generosity to accept generosity.
Merle Shain
#34. Cynicism is a form of cowardice, a failure of courage to hope.
Merle Shain
#35. If there are no endings, there are no beginnings and you see no new lands, so for everything that's lost, there is usually something gained.
Merle Shain
#36. Loving someone means helping them to be more themselves, which can be different from being what you'd like them to be, although often they turn out the same
Merle Shain
#37. Some men are more perfect than others.
Merle Shain
#38. You can tell a lot about what a man lacks by watching what he is cynical about, and many of us are cynical about love.
Merle Shain
#39. The answer doesn't lie in learning how to protect ourselves from life-it lies in learning how to become strong enough to let a bit more of it in.
Merle Shain
#40. The older I get, the clearer it becomes to me that no one is cheated in this world, unless it's by himself.
Merle Shain
#41. Our strength is in our dreams, and those who do not dare to dream damn themselves.
Merle Shain
#42. Marriage is supposed to do everything, like Duz, which is more than half its problem. It is said to save us, define us, give us purpose, keep us from loneliness, and incidentally balance our diet and wash our socks, and when it doesn't, we get divorced.
Merle Shain
#43. Feelings take you into uncharted territory from time to time it's true, but you almost always benefit from the journey one way or the other. We tend to think of the rational as a higher order, but it is the emotional that marks our lives.
Merle Shain
#44. The act is unjustifiable that either begs for a blessing, or, having succeeded gives no thanksgiving.
Merle Shain
#45. Most women would rather have someone whisper their name at optimum moments than rocket with contractions to the moon.
Merle Shain
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#47. We marry to grow up, to escape our parents and to inherit our share of the world, not knowing who we are and who we will become, so it is left to marriage to make it clear which ones of us are growing in the same directions and which are ships meant to have passed in the night.
Merle Shain
#48. Friends are like windows through which you see out into the world and back into yourself. If you don't have friends you see much less than you otherwise might.
Merle Shain
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