Quotes About Victim Mentality

#1. People with victim mentality often do not have life purpose, because they do not know how to acquire them unless someone plans their future for them

Sunday Adelaja

#2. Some people get exactly what they always wanted ... and throw it away. This is the cyclical behavior of someone who has built a life on the foundation of a victim mentality.

Steve Maraboli

#3. If you are a person with victim mentality, start making decisions on your own and live using your own mind

Sunday Adelaja

#4. The problem that we have with a victim mentality is that we forget to see the blessings of the day. Because of this, our spirit is poisoned instead of nourished.

Steve Maraboli

#5. The main problem of a person with victim mentality is that he is incapable of thinking over his life and consequently cannot reach his goals

Sunday Adelaja

#6. Stop validating your victim mentality. Shake off your self-defeating drama and embrace your innate ability to recover and achieve.

Steve Maraboli

#7. People with victim mentality do not have the habit of thinking on their own or thinking in general

Sunday Adelaja

#8. People with victim mentality spend their energy not on achieving their target but on meaningless complaints

Sunday Adelaja

#9. A man with a victim mentality feels like being a victim who is complaining and crying all the time

Sunday Adelaja

#10. Erase the victim mentality. Remember you are capable of achieving greatness. If only you'd believe in your abilities to overcome. You are victorious. Celebrate the victory.

Amaka Imani Nkosazana

#11. The victim mentality may be the last uncomplicated thing about life in America.

Anna Quindlen

#12. It is not uncommon for someone to be a self-saboteur and compound that by also having a victim mentality. It is as though they are holding their own breath and then blaming others for their inability to breathe. If they can break free from this cycle, everything in their life changes for the better.

Steve Maraboli

#13. People with victim mentality, consider actions such as making decisions, setting goals and achieving them to be nothing more than formidable obstacles

Sunday Adelaja

#14. There's a strong victim mentality in my generation. I think it's spiritual laziness. They will agree that God is sovereign over all, but then they will say, "Well, I wish he would sovereignly take away my lust issue." There's just not a lot of fortitude, not a lot of fight in them.

Matt Chandler

#15. People with victim mentality attracts people in their lives that tease them, abuse them and even bully them instead of building mutually benefitting relationships

Sunday Adelaja

#16. I have no physical symptoms, but psychologically there's this burden. I've got to get rid of it somehow. Of course, when I first went back to work I was scared the same thing might happen again. It takes positive thinking to overcome fear, otherwise you'll carry around this victim mentality forever.

Haruki Murakami

#17. The feeling of superiority is a defect that tends to accompany a victim mentality...as if you deserved any merit for being a product of fate.

Rosa Montero

#18. People with victim mentality find it impossible to depend on themselves to solve in dealing with problems and tend to wait for savior

Sunday Adelaja

#19. People who have a victim mentality - those who constantly tend to blame others - never walk in the victory Jesus promises.

Perry Noble

#20. A man with a victim mentality attracts autocrats into his life who will decide how he should live

Sunday Adelaja

#21. Nobody with a victim mentality will get anywhere, ever. They will never succeed.

Jon Lovitz

#22. The discriminations that are found in the Muslim majority countries are more Cultural than Islamic.
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I have always said to the Muslim women, please do not nurture the victim mentality. Stand up for your rights.

Tariq Ramadan

#23. A person with victim mentality cannot find himself, his life mission, and go towards his aims

Sunday Adelaja

#24. I was a redhead and a middle child; both can make you feel excluded. It's like fighting to be included, in the swim of things. After a while you start to develop a bit of a victim mentality, which isn't great for a happy life.

Shirley Manson

#25. It is easier to be a mere performer and not to make serious decisions, to live with an assistance of someone else's mind and obey someone else's command when you are a person of victim mentality

Sunday Adelaja

#26. There is a fine line between compassion and a victim mentality. Compassion though is a healing force and comes from a place of kindness towards yourself. Playing the victim is a toxic waste of time that not only repels other people, but also robs the victim of ever knowing true happiness.

Bronnie Ware

#27. People with victim mentality get accustomed to life with an assistance of someone's mind, waiting for someone to make decisions for him

Sunday Adelaja

#28. Victim Mentality. Some choose to believe that there is nothing they can do to solve their problems, even when they in fact could. Victims seek to blame others for their problems or blame outside circumstances. This

Mark Manson

#29. Your complaints, your drama, your victim mentality, your whining, your blaming, and all of your excuses have NEVER gotten you even a single step closer to your goals or dreams. Let go of your nonsense. Let go of the delusion that you DESERVE better and go EARN it! Today is a new day!

Steve Maraboli

#30. The only way you can own this moment is to evict the victim mentality from the dwelling of your mind.

Steve Maraboli

#31. You're only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows.

Shannon L. Alder

#32. We are stuck in the maize that we created. Most people keep complaining about being stuck rather than finding the way out, and they call themselves unlucky!

Maddy Malhotra

#33. Where I had felt a victim, I had become a determiner by recognizing I had choices. When considering a purchase, I stopped saying, "I can't afford it," and started saying, "That's not where I want to spend that amount of money.

Oriah Mountain Dreamer

#34. I am not a victim. No matter what I have been through, I'm still here. I have a history of victory.

Steve Maraboli

#35. We need to be careful not to fall into the victim mindset. This usually happens because we have a dis-empowering perspective of the circumstance. We forget about "who we are" in Christ and that God is in control.

Michael Barbarulo

#36. These politically correct language initiatives are misguided and harmful. They create highly entitled professional "victims" who expect to be free from any offense, and they engender a stifling atmosphere where all individuals walk on eggshells lest they might commit a linguistic capital crime.

Gad Saad

#37. Victims declare,"The world is responsible for me," and never do anything to better their quality of life.

Henry Cloud

#38. The victim mindset will have you dancing with the devil, then complaining that you're in hell.

Steve Maraboli

#39. Baseless victimhood is usually the last stage before outright aggression.

Stefan Molyneux

#40. Selfish people also tend to have victim mindsets ... Their actions plant seeds of loneliness; then they cry upon the blooming.

Steve Maraboli

#41. When you choose to act on your problems, you cease to be a victim of circumstance and become a force of change; that's when you transition to not only being a survivor, but to being a leader or hero too, and an inspiration to those still in the victim's mindset.

Innocent Mwatsikesimbe

#42. Feminism...is not 'women as victims' but women refusing to be victims.

Gloria Steinem

#43. Abandon the idea that you will forever be the victim of the things that have happened to you. Choose to be a victor.

Seth Adam Smith

#44. Why did this keep happening? Why her? Perhaps there was some pheromone certain people omitted, perceivable only on a wavelength unique to those individuals who preyed on them.

Nenia Campbell