Top 100 Quotes About Caletti
#1. We try to hold a storm in our own fist but we are not that strong.
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#2. Maybe it was wrong, or maybe impossible, but I wanted the truth to be one thing. One solid thing.
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#3. Against the sky, she is exquisitely elsewhere.
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#4. You've got to say what you mean and mean what you say ... Doubt in your voice is an open door people will shove right through.
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#5. I shouldn't have to be a liar to make someone love me. I shouldn't be so afraid of losing someone that I'll do anything to make them stay.
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#6. Holy Christ fate's got a fucking sick sense of humor " he chuckled.
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#7. Control was just wishful thinking, and you controlled things to hedge your bets, to be safe, to guard against loss.
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#8. It made me wonder how many times we forgive just because we don't want to lose someone, even if they don't deserve our forgiveness.
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#9. I tended to give a book a chance and another chance and another, sometimes seeing it all the way to the end, still hoping for for it turn out different. Maybe I was confused about what you owed a book. What you owed people, for that matter, real or fictional.
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#10. But, dear God, don't listen to me. I'm an old lady in the middle of nowhere without a real toilet.
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#11. People like to have something to turn down, though. They want to be able to say no to some things, because it makes their yes more meaningful. (pg. 25)
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#12. I liked the idea of bouncy, open-air Jeeps and I liked the outfits with all the pockets, only I didn't really want to live in Africa and be shot by poachers/get malaria/get stabbed to death.
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#13. There's grief and then there's the loneliness of grief. The way it's just yours and yours alone.
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#14. When what you want is a relationship, and not a person, get a dog.
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#15. Sorry, sorry, sorry. Oh, you can pile on as many as you want, but the guilt is still there, like that pea under all those mattresses.
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#16. Maybe we all just wanted someone to believe in. That's all each of us wanted, and it should be so simple, but it never was simple.
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#17. The truest thing about truth was that it needed to be seen no matter what it was and no matter how it came to you.
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#18. If your life truths have to be protected like some people keep their couches in plastic then ciao. have a nice life. if we bump into eachoter at Target, i'm the one buying the sour gummy worms and thats all you need to know about me.
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#19. More than anything, I like just being there while he works, doing what he knows to do, in his own place.
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#20. It is one of those moments where there is so much to say that there is nothing to say, no adequate words, anyway, to speak it all.
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#21. I became a writer because I love books, and I believe in their power.
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#22. Wanting things for the wrong reasons can turn anyone's life into a marshmallow on a stick over a hot fire: impossibly messy and eventually consumed, one way or another.
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#23. You're an asshole alive, you're still an asshole dead.
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#24. He's alright. He's fine, Dad says, his usual line whenever Oliver gets hurt. It means: Go away. Don't baby him. Don't show too much compassion. The other dads do this too. It's some kind of group hysteria, based on some fatherly fear that says compassion equals homosexuality.
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#25. It was the feeling of not belonging, and longing for your familiar couch and your familiar TV with all those comforting TV people who couldn't see you.
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#26. I was like a chocolate in a box, looking well behaved and perfect in place, all the while harboring a secret center.
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#27. It's a twisted version of Green Eggs and Ham: I could panic in a train! I could panic on a plane! I could panic on the stairs - I could panic anywhere!
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#28. The night smelled like blackberry leaves and the ocean's nearness, something sweet and deep and full.
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#29. We're as good at talking ourselves out of fear as into it, aren't we? Maybe better.
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#30. Does the river make the choice to erode the rock?
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#31. Sometimes you can cattle rope your heart and sometimes you can't, is all.
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#32. It can be exhausting eating a meal cooked by a man. With a woman, it's, Ho hum, pass the beans. A guy, you have to act like he just built the Taj Mahal.
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#33. My most memorable teacher was Rich Campe, my third-grade teacher at Fairlands Elementary in Pleasanton, California.
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#34. I didn't walk over and talk to him, though, not then. If I needed the time for a tree branch to become just a tree branch again and the wind to become just the wind, then a boy, most of all, needed some time to be only a boy.
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#35. Cool superiority as a mask for overflowing insecurity.
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#36. You never know how - or when - the idea for a book will appear.
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#37. And because he was nice in the beginning did not mean he was a good man.
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#38. You could put your confusion and upset and worries into whatever book you were reading. You could sort of set them down in there, and you could come out with your head on a little straighter. I don't why stories worked that way, but they did.
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#39. I was a book lover from the beginning. I loved, love, words and images and ideas, the ways a book can make you feel things deeply or help you understand something you never even knew there were words for.
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#40. Sometimes you build up these walls, you build and you build and you build up these walls and you think they're so strong, but then someone can come along and tip them over with only his fingers, or the weight of his breath.
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#42. Dad was a writer down to his cells, and he loved metaphors. Everything was a metaphor. Your dirty laundry could be one. Unexpected encounters with dog shit, definitely.
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#43. I wrote one book, signed with a good agent, and sat back and waited for the phone to ring. I was sure that the great news would come at any moment. Four books later, I finally got that call.
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#44. You did that when you started to care a lot
you worried he was watching your every move to make sure he really wanted you. You could forget that maybe you were supposed to be doing that too. You forgot it wasn't just you being watched and judged and trying to pass some test.
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#45. When you raise an animal, you live it like your own child.
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#46. The first rule of marital success: Don't marry crazy and don't be crazy.
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#47. They never told you that stranger might be someone you knew.
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#48. I hunt around in my purse. There are no more caramels or fuzzy Altoids, but I find what might be a cough drop. I hold it out to Henry, and he gives me a scared look, like I've just pulled out a knife.
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#49. We can get so wrapped up in our own misconceptions that we miss the simple beauty of the truth.
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#50. Yeah. When you want what's real and you try to find that in high school, you might as well be looking for a mossy rock beside a babbling brook on the corner of Sixth and Pine in downtown Seattle.
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#51. I would have spoken, had my heart not been in my throat
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#52. It makes you realize how basically everything we do comes down to a) mating or b) competing for resources. It's just like Animal Planet, only we've got Cover Girl and Victoria's Secret instead of colored feathers and fancy markings, and the violence occurs at the Nordstrom's Half-Yearly Sale.
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#53. It doesn't matter if we're young. If you love someone, and it's right ... We can make it the whole way, Crick.
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#54. We are all a volume on the shelf of the ... library, a story unto ourselves, never possibly described with one word or even very accurately with thousands.
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#55. You wanted more from people sometimes. And sometimes,you wanted more from yourself.
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#56. Blessed books - they're a place to be alone, and no one else can come in.
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#57. If you look up "charming" in the dictionary, you'll see that it not only has references to strong attraction, but to spells and magic. Then again, what are liars if not great magicians?
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#58. If you don't participate, you're just taking up oxygen. (Bunny)
Life is a banquet. Approach it with hunger. (Chuck)
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#59. In a lifetime, the recipe always needs amending - more of this, a little less of that, what to do now that the cake has fallen.
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#60. I don't stop to imagine home and the people in it, because this is so far from home, I am another person entirely.
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#61. Most of our parents wanted the best for us, I knew, but we also wanted the best for them.
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#62. A library is a physical equivalent of a sigh.
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#64. Writers are troubled about finding time to write and writer's block and publicizing books that aren't books yet. They agonize over how to write and what to write and what not to write.
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#65. It's funny the ways we try to punish ourselves when we feel we've committed some crime.
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#66. We made plans. I lay in bed for a long time just feeling delicious anticipation. Then excitement hit. I got up. I had to move a mountain or something.
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#67. It occurred to me then that a lot of life was either about wanting and not having, or having and not wanting.
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#68. Good can sit in the distance, just beyond your view, waiting, until you go toward it.
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#69. Fear was the biggest bullshitter, he'd said. But sometimes, too, fear told the truth.
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#70. Bliss is the ocean, a towel on the sand, the sun out, the chance to swim in waves or walk dragging a stick behind you, a good book, a cold drink.
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#71. There's a Reasonable Explanation' is definitely a place you can go, a destination.
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#72. I am beginning to think there are two kinds of people," she said. I waited. "Those who forgive themselves too easily but will not forgive others."
"And?" I asked.
"Those that forgive others too easily but will not forgive themselves.
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#73. I've always felt that a heart is meant to be given to only one person at a time. And, too, when it moves on, it moves on for good.
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#74. One thing you can say about daughters and mothers - like it or not, they know the truth about each other.
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#75. If you think about becoming a writer, that's just really one of the big dreams I had. It's really important to have those dreams and pursue your passions.
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#76. Whipped cream can remind you why it's good to be alive.
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#77. You look so good," I say, and s***! Oh god, that's not what I meant. S***! "It looks good. The book.
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#78. If reading counted as a sport, I'd be a gold medalist.
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#79. Nice is akin to not walking under ladders or stepping on cracks. It's a superstitious hedging of bets. A part of you thinks your good behavior will ward off evil. Well, apparently that's not true.
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#80. Maybe a person's world can grow bigger in all the right ways, not too wide that it becomes shallow, just large enough to preserve its depth.
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#81. Marriage is like a well-built porch. If one of the two posts leans too much, the porch collapses. So each must be strong enough to stand on its own.
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#82. He's good, all right," Mom said. "But I guess there's something else. About being sure. Sure about anything. Right comes with right timing.
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#83. No one is ever quite as strong or as weak as you'd think.
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#84. You ... You had always made the future feel safe. As long as you were in it too, beside me, I could be okay.
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#85. All of us create our own versions of an event, of our lives, even, not because we're liars, necessarily, but because we can only see and understand the truth from our own viewpoint, and a shifting viewpoint at that.
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#86. Because words were hills and valleys you traveled, so lovely sometimes that they hurt your eyes.
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#88. I vow ... to not let the back & forth of forgiveness interrupt the steadiness of love.
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#89. Sometimes you're sure dogs have some secret, superior intelligence, and other times you know they're only their simple, goofy selves.
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#90. I kept trying to talk myself out of my second thoughts when they were trying to help me. My advice? When it comes to relationships, second thoughts should be promoted.
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#91. But I didn't want to share everything yet ... I needed that time alone with it first, that delicious time where you replay every moment, where you make what has happened more real and also less - it becomes fact the more you repeat it, but it becomes story, too.
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#92. I've never met a popcorn ball I didn't like.
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#93. The hurt affects your ability to go forward.
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#94. Knowing takes its own time. I swear sometimes you've gotta get really, really uncomfortable before it shows up.
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#95. Being needed was a handy trick. It could fill you up so full you never even noticed all the places that were empty.
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#96. Elijah's wearing white shorts and a bright green shirt and plaid sneakers. People who dress like they're in a perfume ad shouldn't be trusted, in my opinion. They're disingenuous with floral overtones.
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#98. We forget that just because something is honest it is not necessary the truth.
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#99. Ah. Falling in love is such a magical time." "We just met, Damian. I'm not in love." Damian laughs. "I am going to have you clean the stables today, since you are already so full of shit.
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#100. This is not to say I don't feel my own grief, which can hit powerfully at unexpected times. It's just that the telling does not automatically bring on my own upset, as people assume. I deal more with their reaction than they do with mine, and so you have to choose your timing.
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