Marguerite Gardiner Quotes

#1. Haste is always ungraceful.

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#2. A man should never boast of his courage, nor a woman of her virtue, lest their doing so should be the cause of calling their possession of them into question.

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#3. Friends are the thermometer by which we may judge the temperature of our fortunes.

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#4. Tears fell from my eyes - yes, weak and foolish as it now appears to me, I wept for my departed youth; and for that beauty of which the faithful mirror too plainly assured me, no remnant existed.

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#5. Pleasure is like a cordial - a little of it is not injurious, but too much destroys.

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#6. A woman's head is always influenced by her heart, but a man's heart is always influenced by his head.

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#7. He who would remain honest ought to keep away want.

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#8. Satire, like conscience, reminds us of what we often wish to forget.

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#9. Society seldom forgives those who have discovered the emptiness of its pleasures, and who can live independent of it and them.

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#10. Love matches are made by people who are content, for a month of honey, to condemn themselves to a life of vinegar.

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#11. Life would be as insupportable without the prospect of death, as it would be without sleep.

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#12. Superstition is only the fear of belief, while religion is the confidence.

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#13. In France, a woman may forget that she is neither young nor handsome; for the absence of these claims to attention does not expose her to be neglected by the male sex.

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#14. Many minds that have withstood the most severe trials have been broken down by a succession of ignoble cares.

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#15. When we find that we are not liked, we assert that we are not understood; when probably the dislike we have excited proceeds from our being too fully comprehended.

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#16. [His mind] was like a volcano, full of fire and wealth, sometimes calm, often dazzling and playful, but ever threatening. It ran swift as the lightning from one subject to another, and occasionally burst forth in passionate throes of intellect, nearly allied to madness.

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#17. When the sun shines on you, you see your friends. It requires sunshine to be seen by them to advantage!

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#18. Sure there's different roads from this to Dungarvan* - some thinks one road pleasanter, and some think another; wouldn't it be mighty foolish to quarrel for this? - and sure isn't it twice worse to thry to interfere with people for choosing the road they like best to heaven?

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#19. When we bring back with us the objects most dear, and find those we left unchanged, we are tempted to doubt the lapse of time; but one link in the chain of affection broken, and every thing seems altered.

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#20. There are no persons capable of stooping so low as those who desire to rise in the world.

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#21. I see little alteration at Lyons since I formerly passed through it. Its manufactories are, nevertheless, flourishing, though less improvement than could be expected is visible in the external aspect of the place.

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#22. You were wise not to waste years in a lawsuit ... he who commences a suit resembles him who plants a palm-tree which he will not live to see flourish.

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#23. Heaven sends us misfortunes as a moral tonic.

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#24. Reason dissipates the illusions of life, but does not console us for their departure.

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#25. We are more prone to murmur at the punishment of our faults than to lament them.

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#26. The infirmities of genius are often mistaken for its privileges.

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#27. I never will allow myself to form an ideal of any person I desire to see, for disappointment never fails to ensue.

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#28. To amend mankind, moralists should show them man, not as he is, but as he ought to be.

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#29. People are always willing to follow advice when it accords with their own wishes.

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#30. There is no knowledge for which so great a price is paid as a knowledge of the world; and no one ever became an adept in it except at the expense of a hardened or a wounded heart.

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#31. A German writer observes: The noblest characters only show themselves in their real light. All others act comedy with their fellow-men even unto the grave.

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#32. One of the most marked characteristics of our day is a reckless neglect of principles, and a rigid adherence to their semblance.

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#33. Who could look on these monuments without reflecting on the vanity of mortals in thus offering up testimonials of their respect for persons of whose very names posterity is ignorant?

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#34. Happiness consists not in having much, but in being content with little.

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#35. There is no magician like love.

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#36. Spring is the season of hope, and autumn is that of memory.

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#37. It is a sad thing to look at happiness only through another's eyes.

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#38. We never respect those who amuse us, however we may smile at their comic powers.

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#39. There are some chagrins of the heart which a friend ought to try to console without betraying a knowledge of their existence, as there are physical maladies which a physician ought to seek to heal without letting the sufferer know that he has discovered their extent.

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#40. The future: A consolation for those who have no other.

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#41. Bores: People who talk of themselves, when you are thinking only of yourself.

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#42. A mother's love! O holy, boundless thing!
Fountain whose waters never cease to spring!

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#43. We have a reading, a talking, and a writing public. When shall we have a thinking?

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#44. A profound knowledge of life is the least enviable of all species of knowledge, because it can only be acquired by trials that make us regret the loss of our ignorance.

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#45. The most certain mode of making people content with us is to make them content with themselves.

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#46. He who fears not, is to be feared.

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#47. The vices of the rich and great are mistaken for error; and those of the poor and lowly, for crimes.

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#48. Wit lives in the present, but genius survives the future.

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#49. Prejudices are the chains forged by ignorance to keep men apart.

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#50. Modern historians are all would-be philosophers; who, instead of relating facts as they occurred, give us their version, or rather perversions of them, always colored by their political prejudices, or distorted to establish some theory ...

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#51. Calumny is the offspring of Envy.

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#52. Tears may be dried up, but the heart - never.

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#53. A poor man defended himself when charged with stealing food to appease the cravings of hunger, saying, the cries of the stomach silenced those of the conscience.

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#54. Those who are formed to win general admiration are seldom calculated to bestow individual happiness.

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#55. Some people are capable of making great sacrifices, but few are capable of concealing how much the effort has cost them; and it is this concealment that constitutes their value.

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#56. Yes, the meeting of dear friends atones for the regret of separation; and like it so much enhances affection, that after absence one wonders how one has been able to stay away from them so long.

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#57. The chief prerequisite for a escort is to have a flexible conscience and an inflexible politeness.

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#58. Love in France is a comedy; in England a tragedy; in Italy an opera seria; and in Germany a melodrama.

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#59. Alas! there is no casting anchor in the stream of time!

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#60. Despotism subjects a nation to one tyrant; democracy, to many.

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#61. Wit is the lightning of the mind, reason the sunshine, and reflection the moonlight ...

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#62. Happiness is a rare plant that seldom takes root on earth-few ever enjoyed it, except for a brief period; the search after it is rarely rewarded by the discovery, but there is an admirable substitute for it ... a contented spirit.

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#63. Imagination, which is the Eldorado of the poet and of the novel-writer, often proves the most pernicious gift to the individuals who compose the talkers instead of the writers in society.

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#64. Thoughts come maimed and plucked of plumage from the lips, which, from the pea, in the silence of your own leisure and study, would be born with far more beauty.

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#65. Borrowed thoughts, like borrowed money, only show the poverty of the borrower.

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#66. Here Fashion is a despot, and no one dreams of evading its dictates.

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#67. The Temple of Diana is in the vicinity of the fountain, which has given rise to the conjecture that it originally constituted a portion of the ancient baths.

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#68. Genius is the gold in the mine, talent is the miner who works and brings it out.

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#69. A beautiful woman without fixed principles may be likened to those fair but rootless flowers which float in streams, driven by every breeze.

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#70. Flowers are the bright remembrances of youth; they waft us back, with their bland odorous breath, the joyous hours that only young life knows, ere we have learnt that this fair earth hides graves.

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#71. Only vain people wage war against the vanity of others.

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#72. People seem to lose all respect for the past; events succeed each other with such velocity that the most remarkable one of a few years gone by, is no more remembered than if centuries had closed over it.

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#73. Memory seldom fails when its office is to show us the tombs of our buried hopes.

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#74. Our weaknesses are the indigenous produce of our characters; but our strength is the forced fruit.

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#75. Men who would persecute others for religious opinions, prove the errors of their own.

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#76. Women excel more in literary judgment than in literary production,
they are better critics than authors.

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#77. Society punishes not the vices of its members, but their detection ...

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#78. Love and enthusiasm are always ridiculous, when not reciprocated by their objects.

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#79. Mediocrity is beneath a brave soul.

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#80. There is no cosmetic like happiness

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#81. Arles is certainly one of the most interesting towns I have ever seen, whether viewed as a place remarkable for the objects of antiquity it contains, or for the primitive manners of its inhabitants and its picturesque appearance.

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#82. Listeners beware, for ye are doomed never to hear good of yourselves.

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#83. Grief is, of all the passions, the one that is the most ingenious and indefatigable in finding food for its own subsistence.

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#84. Superstition is but the fear of belief.

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#85. To appear rich, we become poor.

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#86. Conversation is the legs on which thought walks; and writing, the wings by which it flies.

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#87. Talent, like beauty, to be pardoned, must be obscure and unostentatious.

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#88. Mountains appear more lofty the nearer they are approached, but great men resemble them not in this particular.

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#89. The difference between weakness and wickedness is much less than people suppose; and the consequences are nearly always the same.

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#90. Those can most easily dispense with society who are the most calculated to adorn it; they only are dependent on it who possess no mental resources, for though they bring nothing to the general mart, like beggars, they are too poor to stay at home.

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