Top 74 Joyce Maynard Quotes

#1. A lot of your problem was in your head. You see yourself screwing up, it's going to happen.

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#2. Although Salinger had long since cut me out of his life completely and made it plain that he had nothing but contempt for me, the thought of becoming the object of his wrath was more than I felt ready to take on.

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#3. She was in love with love.

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#4. It is not the task of a reader to please her subjects.

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#5. It's a great thing when a man knows how to dance, she said. When a man can dance, the world is his oyster.
Adele, Henry's Mother

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#6. A good home must be made, not bought. In the end, it's not track lighting or a sun room that brings light into a kitchen.

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#7. Imagine if you succeeded in making the world perfect for your children what a shock the rest of life would be for them.

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#8. Before I had children I always wondered whether their births would be, for me, like the ultimate in gym class failures. And I discovered instead ... that I'd finally found my sport.

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#9. I continued to protect him with my silence.

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#10. The big dramas that fascinate me are the quiet ones that happen behind closed doors in so-called ordinary families.

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#11. I've had some wonderful successes and some extreme disappointments in my career and my life.

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#12. The portrait of my parents is a complicated one,
but lovingly drawn.

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#13. You write about what you know, and you write about what you want to know.

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#14. The painter who feels obligated to depict his subjects as uniformly beautiful or handsome and without flaws will fall short of making art.

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#15. I tried to think of what my father would tell me. 'Don't let any boy give you shit.' But he'd never said how we should go about preventing this.

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#16. If people choose to live their life in a way that does not confront the more troubling aspects of their experience, that's fine, if it works for them. But it will probably make them uncomfortable if they come up against somebody like me. So they just shouldn't! They shouldn't read my work!

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#17. It's like life: sometimes the littlest thing turns out to be the most important.

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#18. Some family's boat capsized at Lake Winnipesaukee the day before and now they were looking for the father's body.

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#19. It was as if I'd been in the middle of a book that I had to put down when I got too tired to keep reading, or a video put on pause. I wanted to pick back up with the story and find out what happened to the characters, except that the characters were us.

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#20. You like to think you can count on a person. To hang around

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#21. She never gave up adoring our father, but he ceased to be, for her, the larger-than-life hero I continued to make him into. For Patty, he was more like a deeply lovable spaniel who keeps peeing on the rug and chewing on the upholstery, no matter how many times you tell him not to.

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#22. Many women my age have known the experience of giving up crucial parts of themselves to please the man they love.

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#23. If a man wishes to truly not be written about, he would do well not to write letters to 18-year-old girls, inviting them into his life.

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#24. I compromised my ability to tell my story, at the most basic level.

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#25. I do not outline. There are writers I know and count as my friends who certainly do it the other way, but for me, part of the adventure is not knowing how it's going to turn out.

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#26. A person who deserves my loyalty receives it.

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#27. The word NO, carries a lot more meaning when spoken by a parent who also knows how to say yes.

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#28. One life is not enough for me. I want to go lots of places.

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#29. You lay your hand against his skin and just rib his back. Blow into his ear. Press that baby up against your own skin and walk outside with him, where the night air will sourround him, and moonlight fall on his face. Whistle, maybe. Dance. Hum. Pray.
(how to calm a crying baby)

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#30. No, I said. I didn't remember that. There was so much to remember, sometimes the best thing was to forget.

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#31. [On home births:] In a house where there had been three people, there were now four, although no one had come in the door.

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#32. For 25 years, I did take my responsibilities as a pleaser of others sufficiently seriously.

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#33. My job is writing. I get paid to do it. When was the last time you heard someone challenge a doctor for making money off of cancer?

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#34. The process of writing has always started for me when I put myself in a place where no one distracts me.

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#35. Daughters," he told her as they dug. "Nothing better than a good daughter.

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#36. Long after Salinger sent me away, I continued to believe his standards and expectations were the best ones.

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#37. There was a way of looking at the world where practically every single thing that happened had some kind of double meaning.

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#38. When people ask what I write about, that's what I tell them: 'The drama of human relationships.' I'm not even close to running out of material.

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#39. Every child, woman, and man should possess license to speak or sing in his or her true voice.

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#40. She felt everything too deeply, it was like the world was too much for her.

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#41. My mother didn't believe in germs but I did. Germs are something they made up to distract people from what they should really be worried about, she said. Germs are natural. It's the things people do you have to worry about.

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#42. The silence was part of the story I wanted to tell.

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#43. Growing up in the fifties and sixties, I can only remember knowing one child, ever, whose parents got a divorce, and hardly any whose mother 'worked' at anything besides raising her children.

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#44. I believed my story would be helpful to young women my daughter's age, who are still in the process of forming themselves as women, and in need of encouragement to remain true to themselves.

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#45. Tragedy and death would follow a person whereever he went in life. There was no such thing as escape, except maybe the kind that Mr. Kirby had accomplished ...

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#46. I have long observed that the act of writing is viewed, by some, as an elite and otherworldly act, all the more so if a person isn't paid for what she writes.

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#47. If I told you about all the stories I don't tell, I would be violating the very boundaries I set for myself.

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#48. Nothing like being visible, publishing one's work, and speaking openly about one's life, to disabuse the world of the illusion of one's perfection and purity.

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#49. There is a theme that runs through my work, and that is: the toxic property of keeping secrets.

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#50. Some literary types subscribe to the notion that being a writer like Salinger entitles a person to remain free of the standards that might apply to mere mortals.

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#51. The real drug, I came to believe, was love.

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#52. It troubles me that people speak about writing for money as ugly and distasteful.

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#53. One of the sad realities of being a parent is that the same stuff you know is exciting, educational, and enriching in your child'slife is often messy, smelly and exhausting to deal with.

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#54. I guess that my opinion of writing about real people is informed by defenses of Joyce Maynard's memoir, that the experiences were a part of my life as well, and that I have the right to write about my life.

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#55. If you act like something's too hard, it will be, he said. You got to believe it's possible.

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#56. Not only did I avoid speaking of Salinger; I resisted thinking about him. I did not reread his letters to me. The experience had been too painful.

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#57. I believe every one of us possesses a fundamental right to tell our own story.

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#58. Weary soldiers who went through a war together, side by

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#59. I had known there had been a serial killer on Mount Tamalpais, and it felt so incongruous in such a beautiful, peaceful spot.

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#60. It's not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself.

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#61. Women writers have been told, forever, that our stories were not valuable. Not as valuable as men's stories about wars, business, power.

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#62. I was giving a speech one time, and the woman who introduced me said, 'Well, she used to be J. D. Salinger's girlfriend. I thought, 'God, is that all I've been?' I didn't want to be reduced to that.

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#63. A good home must be made, not bought.

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#64. At Home in the World is the story of a young woman, raised in some difficult circumstances, and how she survives. It tells a story of redemption, not victimhood.

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#65. Ten years from now, her mother might not even recognize her. Already she was different, but the day would come when she'd be this person her mother had never seen. There would be other people - someone like Carolyn or Alan, or even Violet - who had known her longer than her mother ever did.

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#66. I have no doubt that over the years my children will find plenty of things about me to criticize. But something tells me that twenty years from now not one of them will sit on some therapist's couch complaining because their mother didn't spend enough time vacuuming up glitter.

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#67. Teach a child to play solitaire, and she'll be able to entertain herself when there's no one around. Teach her tennis, and she'll know what to do when she's on a court. But raise her to feel comfortable in nature, and the whole planet is her home.

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#68. I think of myself as a realistic writer, not a creator of soap opera or melodrama.

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#69. The vehemence with which certain critics have chosen not simply to criticize what I've written, but to challenge my writing this story at all, speaks of what the book is about: fear of disapproval.

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#70. More than any other setting - more than battlefields or boardrooms or a spaceship headed for intergalactic travel - I'll put my money on the family to provide an endless source of comedy, tragedy and intrigue.

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#71. To share our stories is not only a worthwhile endeavor for the storyteller, but for those who hear our stories and feel less alone because of it.

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#72. I wonder what it is that the people who criticize me for telling this story truly object to: is it that I have dared to tell the story? Or that the story turns out not to be the one they wanted to hear?

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#73. Those who rhapsodize about the ease and joy of childhood have perhaps forgotten what it's like to be 12 years old.

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#74. Love doesn't come and go when it's real. Love is supposed to be constant.

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