Jourard Sidney Quotes

#1. The experience of surprise is a sign of one's readiness to grow.

Sidney Jourard

#2. Amazement and wonder signify that one's concepts of self and of the world and of other people are ready to be re-formed.

Sidney Jourard

#3. You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better.

Anne Lamott

#4. You cannot collaborate with another person toward some common end unless you know him. How can you know him, and he you, unless you have engaged in enough mutual disclosure of self to be able anticipate how he will react and what part he will play?

Sidney Jourard

#5. This loss of self contributes to illness in its myriad forms.

Sidney Jourard

#6. You love me; I love you. We are sharing our happiness, too.

Debasish Mridha

#7. Learning is not a task or a problem-it is a way to be in the world. Man learns as he pursues goals and projects that have meaning for him.

Sidney Jourard

#8. We learn to deceive ourselves while we are trying to deceive others.

Sidney Jourard

#9. We encourage people to believe that there is only one identity, one role, one way for them to be, one value for them to fulfill, rather than a host of possible 'incarnations' to be lived in a lifetime.

Sidney Jourard

#10. Men,
want to fix you,
save you,
or fuck you.
I can't be fixed
and I don't care to be saved.

Jeanann Verlee

#11. Fear was a dangerous, unpredictable weapon.

Wendy Higgins

#12. What will life be without music?

Lailah Gifty Akita

#13. Actualization of self cannot be sought as a goal in its own right ... Rather, it seems to be a by-product of active commitment of one's talents to some cause, outside the self, such as the quest for beauty, truth, or justice.

Sidney Jourard

#14. Perhaps the most important reason for self-disclosure is that without it we cannot truly love.

Sidney Jourard

#15. A choice which confronts every one of us at every moment is this: Shall we permit our fellow men to know us as we now are, or shall we seek instead to remain an enigma, an uncertain quantity , wishing to be seen as something we are not?

Sidney Jourard

#16. The worst job in the whole world must be recycling toilet paper.

Chuck Palahniuk

#17. Paradoxically, we fail to disclose ourselves to other people because we want so much to be loved. Because we feel that way, we present ourselves as someone we think can be loved and accepted, and we conceal whatever would mar that image.

Sidney Jourard