Stephanie Dray Quotes

#1. Why was it that women were expected to restrain our every passion for the sake of propriety, but men couldn't do it even for the sake of the women they loved?

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#2. I had come to Rome in chains, but I would leave Rome a queen.

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#3. Like the sun and the moon, we were always meant to be in the same sky.

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#4. Patsy, suffering strengthens our constitutions and builds inner fortifications so that we never fall prey to the same agony twice. We must take upon ourselves a smaller evil to defend against the greater evil. We must take upon ourselves a smaller pain in order to survive." I

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#5. Because I sensed in him the magic of a poet, a storyteller who can bind you with tales of things that had never been and could never be. And I felt myself so bound. Pulled under. At a loss for breath in his presence, just as I once was in a river, clinging to life.

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#6. The heart swellings convince me of the folly of those who dare to think that any new ties can weaken the first and best of nature.

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#7. Because partisanship has made anything fair, which honor and propriety might once have kept quiet.

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#8. And when Venutius was not busy fighting, he was content to spend his days hammering things near a forge and his evenings hammering, well ... as I said, we got on well.

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#9. When and where you are Gaius, I then and there am Gaia." The words make him smile, and he presses a soft kiss to my cheek. "When and where you are Gaia, I then and there am Gaius.

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#10. I knew that a man was not only himself but also who he wished to be.

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#11. We have no rose without its thorn; it is the law of our existence; it is the condition annexed to all our pleasures.

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#12. My father was a scientist, a scholar, and a Virginia gentleman,

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#13. Life is a bargain between bitter and sweet. Because there is a surfeit of bitter, we must savor the rare sweet.

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#14. Need me. Need me the way a woman is meant to need her husband.

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#15. Selene's life is a lesson to us that the trajectory of women's equality hasn't always been a forward march. In some ways the ancients were more advanced than we are today; there have been setbacks before and may be more in the future.

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#16. What's important is that you can be a wife and mother or you can be a devoted daughter all your life. You can't be both. Not when Thomas Jefferson is your father. You have to choose, Patsy. His

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#17. This was, I thought, why love was so dangerous. I searched for the right words, when a certain warmth stole over me at the realization that her happiness was more important than fear. Even if she left me ...

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#18. They'll try to make you forget who you are or try to make you ashamed. But you mustn't forget and you mustn't be ashamed.

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#19. The spirit of independence! Every man who bore arms in this revolution now considers himself on the same footing as his neighbor. I tell you, Jefferson, the spirit of independence has been converted to the abominable idea of equality.

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#20. When the heart finds its one true desire, any separation and delay is unbearable.

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#21. The curves of his smile become the waves in my ocean.

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#22. For the first time in my life, I understood that a lie could protect those I loved. My

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#23. Am I fated to have the men I've loved torment me in my weakest moments?

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#24. I'll tell you a secret about being happy, Tom. Sometimes you just have to pretend at it until it becomes real.

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#25. I was startled by his touch. I hadn't realized he was so close to me, because I seemed so far from myself.

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#26. It pains me to be an embarrassment to you, but I don't know how to remedy my flaws. All I know is that whenever I feel strongly compelled to act, a doubt always arises. And whereas the voice of reason is low and persuasive, passion is loud and imperious.

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#27. You are the magic in my soul. You are as constant in my heart as the moon in the night. You are my other half and I'll always seek you out somehow, even though it puts you in danger, and that is my shame.

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#28. Kings and queens cry with family. Hide your grief from subjects and strangers.

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#29. Spoken words fail me where my pen rarely does.

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#30. And I reminded myself that a woman should be able to dress as she liked without a man hurting her ...

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