Top 100 John De Ruiter Quotes
#2. The source of love isn't in your self. It isn't in your experience. It's in you.
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#3. As much as everything can seem to be about patterns in your self and others, within the drama of all that, it's really all about knowing.
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#4. When your heart is open and soft, it isn't actually vulnerable: it can withstand anything.
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#5. Your whole life is really only all about that dear place in you where you know you've realized, you love, and you are reached.
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#6. You don't come into the more without responding to what you already know.
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#7. The new ground that you form in your living is a new self, a new self that isn't at all of the middle ground, a lived-in self that has no need of middle ground. That new self makes unseen reality within seen.
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#8. Your mind is like a servant to you. Whatever you are being in the midst of your mind, your mind is going to be the same to you.
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#10. When you respond to your heart you are responding to love.
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#11. The softer your heart is the less that your past is forming your present and your future. When there is openness and softness of heart, what forms the present and the future is not your past but the reality of your own being.
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#12. In this there are no options, just response, awareness responding to knowing. All the way in and all the way out. This isn't of the earth - this is of the everything.
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#13. When you come from your heart in the midst of your self and in your life, you'll be like a salmon turning and going upstream. You'll be going against the stream. You'll be going against what your self is like. In that way, you are training your self, your conditioning and the streams of your self.
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#14. Where there's self importance, there's only a very little bit of you and that little bit is distorted. It's in a holding pattern that is false to what it knows. That holding pattern forbids you, in that little bit of you, from being the rest of you.
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#15. When a city is inundated with water, the water will move in all of the streets. Every pathway that has been made will be used. It doesn't matter the reason of its making.
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#16. When you rest in the weakness of your heart, your being moves and your self becomes quieted.
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#17. Where your life ends, your being doesn't. Where your being ends, you don't. That is what is able to have and move your forms.
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#18. Your real strength within isn't the strength that you experience in your self. Your real strength within is in what you are as a being, deeper than what your self is. Your real strength is within your weakest weakness.
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#19. The more that you bypass of your own mechanisms, the more in your self that will come apart.
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#20. You need to bring your awakening into city life. Bring it into fast-paced complexity where it thrives.
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#21. High level womanness occurs and is freed when the filters and the boundaries in your womanness are no longer of use to you. As a woman you then move as your own Being.
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#22. Give others their dignity by opening and softening in your heart to them.
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#23. Your real home isn't your patterned self. It isn't your thinking. It isn't your feeling. Your real home is the deepest within that you know the truth of. Your real home, your only home, is direct knowledge.
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#25. When a drop of water touches a drop of water there is no holding back - it joins. Water responds to water. Your being responds to what is the same, outside of you, as your own being.
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#26. Whatever you know in your heart, live at the expense of anything else.
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#27. The more that you need a relationship, the less you are able to be in a relationship. The more that something on the surface can answer you, the less that you will be really answered when you're in it.
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#29. Integrate the unseen of what you first are in the midst of all things seen.
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#30. As awareness recedes into the deep, as when it falls asleep, everything seemingly ends. All that it takes is a gentle touch to your body; meaning has moved and meaning is again aware, knowing, seeing, and if it is home, meeting and communing.
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#31. Awareness returning home is awareness being enfolded by what it knows.
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#32. If you set something free and it comes back to you, that's the beginning of it being yours.
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#33. For your self to become pure, give everything to what is already pure in you.
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#34. Where there is movement, there is reach. Reach engenders communion.
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#35. To really evolve as awareness, be just like your own being in a self like yours and on a planet like this one.
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#36. What you are is the most subtle delicacy of being.
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#37. When your heart softens and opens, your being becomes matter in your self. That is the change of matter and what matters to you in your self will change.
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#38. As what you first are moves in the context of form, you have real reflection within that form, real reflection of what you are, what you are being and what you are doing. The movement in form enables you to comprehend what you are.
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#39. Find the most delicate qualities within; then treat these qualities as tiny little seeds that you would plant in your heart, with you being the gardener.
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#40. Truth is not a mystery - its greatest secrets are yours to know through simple honesty and surrender to what that honesty reveals.
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#41. When you are unconditionally open and soft in your heart while your self empties and while your self fills, you live fulfilling the law of containment.
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#42. When you really love, that makes you feel unsure in your self, even though it is love that reaches your heart.
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#43. The best that you can do for your mind is to have no in-between state in your heart.
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#44. For you to be free of your thinking mind, that will cost you the way that you've put your self together. It will cost you your patterned self.
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#45. The known unseen within becomes structural in what is seen: a being functioning as a self, in person, in this world.
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#46. Your self doesn't represent the truth in you, your being does. Give your ease only to what you know represents the truth in you.
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#47. The more open you are within, the more capacity you will have to know, to see, and to love.
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#48. The unfolding code of what you really are occurs every time you go to sleep.
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#49. What is deeper is warmer. When you're looking for what is deeper, add warmth.
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#50. While sincerity is to carry the weight of knowledge in the self, it is also to be the lightness of being clean.
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#51. Start out identifying what you know are delicacies of being within, tiny little touches of knowledge that has beingness in it, special soft spots of heart. As soon as you identify them, you need to believe them.
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#52. Your past determines your future unless you're clearly moving past your self and responding to what you know in your heart.
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#53. When you are relaxed and you hear what you know is the truth, regardless of your experience, you love. You love the truth. You love hearing, knowing, responding to the truth, because all of that is really you.
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#54. The more that you're knowing, the more you will be feeling and seeing, the more that you will hurt in your heart, and in your self. Deep heart understanding replaces your need and your holding of personal truths.
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#55. Sunny is what you are. Everything else is what you think.
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#56. Your deeper sense isn't a springboard; it's a landing place. If you draw conclusions too quickly or too slowly, you'll establish your self where it doesn't belong. The fine line between the two is in your own deeper sense. It is in your actual knowing within that deeper sense.
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#57. The more clean you are in awakening to your own being, the more you'll be able to move your own being toward others. Your evolution as awareness is in the purity of thatit's in the cleanness.
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#58. When you're all in, you will know sweet vulnerability.
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#59. What you really are isn't loyal to your self. It won't favor your self. It will turn your self into what you really are.
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#60. It isn't the kind of profession that you have that makes you flourish; it's what you are coming from, within, that makes you flourish. Then everything that you step into turns into your garden.
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#61. Your sexuality is the engine of your humanness. Freed of your self, it is an engine of movement. It isn't there to move your experience, but to move your being into your experience, bringing your being into the physicality of your self.
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#62. Everyone starts out with a little self, and it costs everything to move past that little self. It costs the life of the little self to be the life within that's deeper than that little self.
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#63. Surrender to the deepest level within that you're aware of.
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#65. Where you quietly know within, you have no choice.
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#66. When you, awareness, are mastered by the deepest that you know the truth of, then you are no longer awareness. You are oneness aware mastering your self and your life.
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#67. The more honest you are, the more quieted you are within.
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#69. This life is a stellar opportunity to realize what you are, to bring what you first are into manifestation.
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#70. There's a depth of meaning all on its own in awareness being gentled. From within the subtlety of being gentled, the level of perception changes. Instead of perceiving the obviousness of experience, you're able as awareness to perceive most subtle meaning.
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#71. If you don't abdicate or misuse your power, pressure takes you into realization.
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#72. What moves you, you move. That brings your sexuality into your being, through your heart, and that movement brings your being, through your heart, into your self.
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#73. Well-being is like water moving down hill. When you block the water, the water turns into a reservoir, reservoir of well-being instead of a flow of well-being. To well-being it doesn't make a difference.
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#74. The heart that is at rest grows and develops from anything.
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#75. When awareness believes what it knows is true, the truth of what awareness really is, moves. That movement is love.
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#76. Your life has little purpose if you are separate from your own knowledge within.
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#78. For you to access your own innermost as awareness is for you to surrender form after form after form, enabling you as awareness to recede to what you first are, for you to be meaning.
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#80. Without your entrance to greater reality in this life, greater reality has no entrance to this life. The meaning of all of this lifeisn't as it appears. The meaning of this life is for greater reality to manifest through all the forms of this life.
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#81. For you to have real love, you need to be able to move past your self.
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#82. If you are all open in your heart, you are clean. If you are all open in your self, you are naive.
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#83. When you are being what you really are you absolutely flourish in the midst of absolutely everything.
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#84. If you die of cancer with only openness and softness in your heart, you will live and die integrating your self.
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#85. Everyone is giving something. Everyone is giving what has their heart. What I'm giving you is what has my heart.
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#86. You simply cannot trust or refer to your experience of your self to tell you what you are, to tell you the truth within.
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#87. You're not limited to your body as you've known your body. In the deepest levels of you being in your deepest body, there is nowhere that your body is not, and with that body you're able to think.
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#88. It doesn't matter how powerfully sexuality, one with your being, moves; it's all profound goodness. You're safe in it. What you know in it, of its depth and its quality, is what you're saying yes to, what you're resting in, what you're warmed in.
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#89. The place of connection or separation in relationship to your own being, the place in your self where this occurs, is in your heart.
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#90. When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self.
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#91. As soon as there's pain, you know the gold is just beneath.
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#92. You cannot dwell in your being while your self inhabits your heart.
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#93. It's true for you to soften within, to let your heart open, to let your heart soften.
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#95. You are able to come from openness and softness in an instant.
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#96. Everything needs to touch your heart. Everything that touches your heart brings out the deep in you.
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#97. When your self and your life belong to your being, your self opens, your life opens, your being comes in, and it will have everything. It is the single greatest turning point in your life.
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#98. The more that you are being your ideas, the less human you are. The deeper your realization, being in your heart, the more of your humanness you come into.
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#99. Depth of feeling and clarity of thought isn't the same as knowing.
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